Is it unethical to withhold mental conditions whilst dating

[Peache]

No need to be deceitful if your mental health has no affect on your spouse no need to share it with them.

Everyone has mental illness some hide well others get therapy.

I personally know a few familes who hid the fact their son is either mentally unwell and any girl who may marry him, is going in unsuspecting, cause no one in the fam is telling her. They all make him sound normal and amazing.

 

[Peache]

There's a difference between being secretive and sharing everything. You don't have to tell him about that time your lunchbox got stolen in elementary.

But if the situation calls for it, or if he/she asks directly. Then there's no reason to lie/refuse to answer.

Now there is that occasional spouse who demands to know everything that happens in your life. The paranoid obsessive types. Which are a huge red flag. A healthy relationship can respect privacy while not being deceitful.

A healthy relationship also needs understanding about anything the woman or man did in the past, and if they repented from it and haven’t repeated it, and have overall learned from their mistakes. That’s also important too. Especially if it doesn’t effect the present day relationship in any way.

 

[Yusuf Abdi Ali Rashid]

Why hide it...it will eventually come out especially when everyone around me comments on how weird you are...

No one knows i’m schizophrenic

 

[Ladylike]

I personally know a few familes who hid the fact their son is either mentally unwell and any girl who may marry him, is going in unsuspecting, cause no one in the fam is telling her. They all make him sound normal and amazing.

That is wrong. I should have been more clear, I meant when someone is going through issues I guess mental health is very broad. Some people will use it against you including family which is why I said to be very selective.