is Having a good heart a blessing?

[Basra]

Two sisters- one has a good heart and the other not a bad heart but she definitely did not have a good heart! The younger one has a good heart. The older by two years- was abused by her reer abtii- making her like a maid and abuse. The second daugther was abused too- but she had the advantage of being younger and not getting a big brunt of the abuse. But anyway the older sister who is my aunt- in her 70s now still talks about her sufferings. Yet my mother never talked about the sufferings but loved her reer abtii too much.

My mother the good hearted went and lived a princess's life of Cinderella story. A comfortable life and a rich husband. My aunt the opposite. Poor aunty until today she speaks of the Dhulmi she went through!


Guys do not dhulmi any soul. Walaahi as long as they cry in their soul- u will NOT REST!


Guys Wabeneya and xasiidniimo is not easy

 

[Abu Hesi]

Two sisters- one has a good heart and the other not a bad heart but she definitely did not have a good heart! The younger one has a good heart. The older by two years- was abused by her reer abtii- making her like a maid and abuse. The second daugther was abused too- but she had the advantage of being younger and not getting a big brunt of the abuse. But anyway the older sister who is my aunt- in her 70s now still talks about her sufferings. Yet my mother never talked about the sufferings but loved her reer abtii too much.

My mother the good hearted went and lived a princess's life of Cinderella story. A comfortable life and a rich husband. My aunt the opposite. Poor aunty until today she speaks of the Dhulmi she went through!


Guys do not dhulmi any soul. Walaahi as long as they cry in their soul- u will NOT REST!


Guys Wabeneya and xasiidniimo is not easy

I don't blame your auntie.

Are you saying she doesn't have a good heart just because she doesn't like her reer abti?

 

[Basra]

I don't blame your auntie.

Are you saying she doesn't have a good heart just because she doesn't like her reer abti?

Am saying that she does not have a big heart to forgive. My point of this thread was- if God blesses u with a good heart- u will overlook alot of things. Yes her abuse is REAL-- and HORRIBLE-- but my mother went thru the same.

My mom's habaryeer- burnt my moms left side face cheek with a hot steel pretending this will cure her flu. My mom had that mark all her life. The wabeneeya aunt was jealous of her natural God given beauty- she permanently marked my mom. Yet she never complained about this Dhulmi! My ayeeeyo who is Wabeeneya told me these horrible stories!

 

[Abu Hesi]

Am saying that she does not have a big heart to forgive. My point of this thread was- if God blesses u with a good heart- u will overlook alot of things. Yes her abuse is REAL-- and HORRIBLE-- but my mother went thru the same.

My mom's habaryeer- burnt my moms left side face cheek with a hot steel pretending this will cure her flu. My mom had that mark all her life. The wabeneeya aunt was jealous of her natural God given beauty- she permanently marked my mom. Yet she never complained about this Dhulmi

Ok, the way you wrote I thought your aunt had it way worse.

But I agree, some people built different.

 

[Abu Hesi]

Btw, women are xaasididiin to each other, no wonder guys like Rusheeye are becoming millionaires.

 

[Basra]

Ok, the way you wrote I thought your aunt had it way worse.

But I agree, some people built different.

That is why i always use stereotypes walaahi- they are correct. When u hear the Wabeeneya qabil comes to mind- think- Xaaasiidnimmo!

 

[Basra]

Btw, women are xaasididiin to each other, no wonder guys like Rusheeye are becoming millionaires.

Can you imagine being so jealous- u burn the face of your pretty niece? And then when this pretty niece is grown up happy with her rich husband- u have the audacity to come live with her during civil war?

 

[Abu Hesi]

Can you imagine being so jealous- u burn the face of your pretty niece? And then when this pretty niece is grown up happy with her rich husband- u have the audacity to come live with her during civil war?

Your mom is a good person, maa shaa Allah.

Lkn qabiilka nagadaa ina adeer. Somalis are xaasididiin to each other.

But usually, it's the eedo that be hating, lkn in this case, it's the habaryars, shit is crazy.

 

[Basra]

Your mom is a good person, maa shaa Allah.

Lkn qabiilka nagadaa ina adeer. Somalis are xaasididiin to each other.

But usually, it's the eedo that be hating, lkn in this case, it's the habaryars, shit is crazy.

no u r right walaahi! I think Xasiidniimo is a disease o the heart of that person who is not connected to Allaah swt! Or fears Allaah!

 

[Abu Hesi]

no u r right walaahi! I think Xasiidniimo is a disease o the heart of that person who is not connected to Allaah swt! Or fears Allaah!

It's is, ibn qayyim has a good book on it, if you are the envied or the envier.

 

[Hodan from HR]

It sure is.

Never to see one's self as a victim. When we see the bad things people do to us as part of our qadr and our test in this life, it is easier to move on. Think of it like if not that habaryar who abused her, it would have be an uncle or another relative..

It is not about the people who hurt us but how we can become better people from the painful experiences. Of course it helps when you have imaan and complete trust in Allah's decree..



"Know that if the whole world were to gather together to benefit you with anything, it would benefit you only with something that God had already prescribed for you. And if the whole world were to gather together to harm
you, it would harm you only
with something that God
had already prescribed for
you." Hadith

 

[Hodan from HR]

It's is, ibn qayyim has a good book on it, if you are the envied or the envier.

I've read this one by ibn Taymiyyah. It's a nice one..

 

[Basra]

It's is, ibn qayyim has a good book on it, if you are the envied or the envier.

really i am going to check the book out

 

[Keep it a boqol]

it’s a blessing.

The issue is your going to get hurt and taken advantage of. Laakin everything else will be paid off and justice will be served in the akhira

 

[Basra]

It sure is.

Never to see one's self as a victim. When we see the bad things people do to us as part of our qadr and our test in this life, it is easier to move on. Think of it like if not that habaryar who abused her, it would have be an uncle or another relative..

It is not about the people who hurt us but how we can become better people from the painful experiences. Of course it helps when you have imaan and complete trust in Allah's decree..



"Know that if the whole world were to gather together to benefit you with anything, it would benefit you only with something that God had already prescribed for you. And if the whole world were to gather together to harm
you, it would harm you only
with something that God
had already prescribed for
you." Hadith

Mashalaaah @Hodan from HR that is a good reminder

 

[Basra]

it’s a blessing.

The issue is your going to get hurt and taken advantage of. Laakin everything else will be paid off and justice will be served in the akhira

Mashalaaah- but i really believe the sufferings we suffer is for our own good and growth. like @Hodan from HR mention The people who hurt u - r not the star of your story. The star of your story is YOU and how u will thank Your Lord Allaah swt and be patient. How u will pass the test of trials and pain!

 

[Abu Hesi]

really i am going to check the book out

Kalamullah has it.

Just type Hasad ibn qayyim pdf

If you don't wanna read, Dr Saleh as Saleh has an audio on the book.

 

[Basra]

I've read this one by ibn Taymiyyah. It's a nice one..


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Wow u r resourceful walaahi -where do u get the time to work, read books and watch inordinate amount of cat vids huuno?

 

[Basra]

Kalamullah has it.

Just type Hasad ibn qayyim pdf

If you don't wanna read, Dr Saleh as Saleh has an audio on the book.

Mashalaaah u two scare me

 

[Hodan from HR]

Wow u r resourceful walaahi -where do u get the time to work, read books and watch inordinate amount of cat vids huuno?

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