Irl effects of consuming too much blackpill material

[Keep it a boqol]

He isn't starving himself, but he's definitely developing insecurities. Like a week ago I was minding my bussiness and he just mentioned how my nose was so nice and straight and that he hates his nose, he literally always asks me weird questions about his appearance.

I’d suggest him to start hitting the gym. I think it a great place for young boys to start developing confidence and looking better if they have insecurities.

 

[aarkamudug]

I’d suggest him to start hitting the gym. I think it a great place for young boys to start developing confidence and looking better if they have insecurities.

She should teach him how to take of his hair and skin too

 

[Keep it a boqol]

She should teach him how to take of his hair and skin too

Just grow it out long and drink lots of water he’ll be fine.

@kamek make sure hooyo and aabo don’t give him a buzz cut

 

[kamek]

I’d suggest him to start hitting the gym. I think it a great place for young boys to start developing confidence and looking better if they have insecurities.

She should teach him how to take of his hair and skin too

Just grow it out long and drink lots of water he’ll be fine.

@kamek make sure hooyo and aabo don’t give him a buzz cut

He's already doing all of that, like I said, he's "looksmaxxing" or wtv. I just don't want to him to become to obsessed with his appearance, he seems so self conscious all the time and analyses his face to find new insecurities.

 

[novanova]

all looksmaxxers are losers

 

[aarkamudug]

He's already doing all of that, like I said, he's "looksmaxxing" or wtv. I just don't want to him to become to obsessed with his appearance, he seems so self conscious all the time and analyses his face to find new insecurities.

Talk to him about it, be nicer to him as cringey as it sounds let him know that’s he’s loved

 

[3LetterzMM]

Forcing him to speak to girls while his confidence is that bad would do more harm than good for him.

I beg to differ I used to have the worst self esteem absolutely no confidence lol you shoulda seen me back then I was probably worse than her brother. The idea of walking up to a girl scared me shitless and I couldn’t hold a conversation for the life of me I was a nervous wreck.

You know what helped me get over it? Trial and error. My older brother noticed this and saw how it messed with my self esteem so he would take me to malls and tell me I couldn’t leave till I asked out 5 girls next day 10 it doesn’t matter if I get rejected or not as long as I talk to them and make an attempt to grab their number. He would give me tips and tricks and he would do approaches himself just to show me that with practice it becomes easy. Whenever a younger and older girl where together he would be my wingman he’d start by rizzing up the older girl then he’d joke around with the younger one tell her it’s your lucky day the big boss has taken a liking to you. To this day Idk what he did but he’d pull the older girl aside talk to her a lil then the older girl pulls her sister aside and now out of nowhere they’re inviting us to the crib flirting with us like crazy.

tl;dr it took me thousands of approaches and rejections before I got good enough to consistently bag girls it was hard work and sometimes the rejections where really harsh and painful makes you wanna quit and never ask a girl out again but having someone who pushes you out your comfort zone and makes u do that hard work is what will make him gain more and more confidence. Either he does the work or stays how he is.

 

[MaliMohamed]

Bros mad hes not simping lol

 

[aarkamudug]

I beg to differ I used to have the worst self esteem absolutely no confidence lol you shoulda seen me back then I was probably worse than her brother. The idea of walking up to a girl scared me shitless and I couldn’t hold a conversation for the life of me I was a nervous wreck.

You know what helped me get over it? Trial and error. My older brother noticed this and saw how it messed with my self esteem so he would take me to malls and tell me I couldn’t leave till I asked out 5 girls next day 10 it doesn’t matter if I get rejected or not as long as I talk to them and make an attempt to grab their number. He would give me tips and tricks and he would do approaches himself just to show me that with practice it becomes easy. Whenever a younger and older girl where together he would be my wingman he’d start by rizzing up the older girl then he’d joke around with the younger one tell her it’s your lucky day the big boss has taken a liking to you. To this day Idk what he did but he’d pull the older girl aside talk to her a lil then the older girl pulls her sister aside and now out of nowhere they’re inviting us to the crib flirting with us like crazy.

tl;dr it took me thousands of approaches and rejections before I got good enough to consistently bag girls it was hard work and sometimes the rejections where really harsh and painful makes you wanna quit and never ask a girl out again but having someone who pushes you out your comfort zone and makes u do that hard work is what will make him have total confidence in himself. Either he does the work or stays how he is.

Bro I was in the same position as lil bro too and you couldn’t pay me back then to hold a conversation with a girl my age. Even if my dawgs would talk about linking some girls or going on two mans I always came up with an excuse if somebody would’ve forced me back then i’d just resent them. This lil needs to gain some confidence first and his first interactions with the opposite gender should be organic not forced

 

[TheLand]

He isn't starving himself, but he's definitely developing insecurities. Like a week ago I was minding my bussiness and he just mentioned how my nose was so nice and straight and that he hates his nose, he literally always asks me weird questions about his appearance.

Who says that to their own sister?

 

[3LetterzMM]

Bro I was in the same position as lil bro too and you couldn’t pay me back then to hold a conversation with a girl my age. Even if my dawgs would talk about linking some girls or going on two mans I always came up with an excuse if somebody would’ve forced me back then i’d just resent them. This lil needs to gain some confidence first and his first interactions with the opposite gender should be organic not forced

At what point do you say f*ck this we gotta push him to put himself out there what are you gonna do when he’s 30 with this same mindset you’re still gonna say just leave him alone he’ll get over it one day?

 

[Kane]

The black pill is reality, however it shouldn’t make you act like this

I appreciate your take but we will have to agree to disagree.

 

[aarkamudug]

‘Bp isn’t real’

 

[haneef]

This dude said openly he use to be on forums that Elliot R was on

 

[billsl]

He's 4 years younger than me, I'm not hooking him up with my friends, and I don't really think he's interested in dating, he mentioned to me how his friend is taller and more handsome than him, and how when he was fat people who always make jokes about him, I think it's just genuine insecurity, he wants to be attractive to feel confident, and have people respect him more

I think looksmaxxing if you already are aware about it in the sense of trying to improve facial flaws you may have or overall appearance is a good idea even if he analyses his ratios and shi as incel as that sounds and should be done, there's nothing wrong with that until you get to the stage of considering surgeries etc.. then he needs to be careful. But all you can do now is damage control him by trying to play down indulging in the incel culture/neurodivergency, but at the same time actually fixing the insecurities he has bcs you can't deny looks matter or aren't important at the end of the day, so like not shunning the whole bp/lm thing together