In regards to these online gender debacles

[Radical]

How absolutely embarrassing, this whole skirmish is immature at best and an outlet to publicly humiliate and air each other's flaws at worst, I have yet to witness any other online community carry this much immense disdain for their kin, it's like a divorced couple constantly posting all their grievances on social media EVERY SINGLE DAY instead of moving on with their new found lives.

Let's look at this from a different perspective, imagine the foreigner you're entangled with sees how much you're willing to barrage your ethnicity for their sake, they would no doubt feel second-hand embarrassment but also either A) cut ties with you cause no sane person would want to be with a spouse generelizing their own people based on stereotypes, it's just one giant red flag. Or B) Use you as an ego trip since you keep reminding them how much better they are than what's basically your dad or mother. You're the lesser partner in this relationship since you've completely abolished your selfworth and dignity.

Now I understand, you might want to explore a bit, dabble on some exotic action, that's fine by me, just DO NOT put others down as you do it.

And lastly, excuse my kikuyu but why the f*ck are you making it a personality trait? It's like If I decided to ditch the national cuisine (God forbid) for malawax and started posting declarations, statements and announcements every chance I got whilst putting '#Canjeeroexit' under every username on every account I have. I don't care where your guu$ or $iil travels to. Keep that shit to yourself.

 

[Juliet]

I have yet to witness any other online community carry this much immense disdain for their kin,

Stopped reading right here

but good advice overall, don’t come for my neck

 

[Radical]

Stopped reading right here

but good advice overall, don’t come for my neck

Nobody hates Somalis more than other Somalis, you can't say the same about any other race.

 

[romanzolanski]

Nobody hates Somalis more than other Somalis, you can't say the same about any other race.

asians, blacks, whites, etc
literally every race/ethnic group has gender wars online

 

[Radical]

asians, blacks, whites, etc
literally every race/ethnic group has gender wars online

You're right about that but what I do mean is that when you see someone making fun of a Somali online 9/10 they tend to be our own.

 

[orangeskys]

I've accepted the fact that Somalis are a hateful group. When we're not attacking one another, we're punching down other groups without reason. They say it's due to pride yet this isn't something I observe in people from more successful ethnicities/nations. I think it just makes some of them feel better for their shortcomings.

 

[__08]

How absolutely embarrassing, this whole skirmish is immature at best and an outlet to publicly humiliate and air each other's flaws at worst, I have yet to witness any other online community carry this much immense disdain for their kin, it's like a divorced couple constantly posting all their grievances on social media EVERY SINGLE DAY instead of moving on with their new found lives.

Let's look at this from a different perspective, imagine the foreigner you're entangled with sees how much you're willing to barrage your ethnicity for their sake, they would no doubt feel second-hand embarrassment but also either A) cut ties with you cause no sane person would want to be with a spouse generelizing their own people based on stereotypes, it's just one giant red flag. Or B) Use you as an ego trip since you keep reminding them how much better they are than what's basically your dad or mother. You're the lesser partner in this relationship since you've completely abolished your selfworth and dignity.

Now I understand, you might want to explore a bit, dabble on some exotic action, that's fine by me, just DO NOT put others down as you do it.

And lastly, excuse my kikuyu but why the f*ck are you making it a personality trait? It's like If I decided to ditch the national cuisine (God forbid) for malawax and started posting declarations, statements and announcements every chance I got whilst putting '#Canjeeroexit' under every username on every account I have. I don't care where your guu$ or $iil travels to. Keep that shit to yourself.

Facts. It’s embarrassing when I see it. Not all Somali men or women are bad! Seek therapy if you need healing and if you see toxic people run.

We’re ruining our image & social cohesion with each other.

 

[Ladylike]

I've accepted the fact that Somalis are a hateful group. When we're not attacking one another, we're punching down other groups without reason. They say it's due to pride yet this isn't something I observe in people from more successful ethnicities/nations. I think it just makes some of them feel better for their shortcomings.

People in general are full of drama.not only somalis. It takes personal accountability to mind your own business.

 

[Juliet]

Facts. It’s embarrassing when I see it. Not all Somali men or women are bad! Seek therapy if you need healing and if you see toxic people run.

We’re ruining our image & social cohesion with each other.

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[__08]

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Exactly. They hate women (for what reason i don’t know). Especially the girl is just living her life. Like don’t they feel ceeb harassing them? I couldn’t go to a random Somali guys comments and talk crap. I would feel ceeb. Where the respect at..

 

[repo]

Gender wars are not unique to us on social media but what is are the ones attacking other people for literally no reason and somehow taking pride in it.

 

[Juliet]

Nobody hates Somalis more than other Somalis, you can't say the same about any other race.

Nobody hates black women more than black men (and vice versa) and nobody hates asian men (who did nothing wrong except exist) as much as asian women. These are just a couple of examples

 

[Mr Sufi]

How absolutely embarrassing, this whole skirmish is immature at best and an outlet to publicly humiliate and air each other's flaws at worst, I have yet to witness any other online community carry this much immense disdain for their kin, it's like a divorced couple constantly posting all their grievances on social media EVERY SINGLE DAY instead of moving on with their new found lives.

Let's look at this from a different perspective, imagine the foreigner you're entangled with sees how much you're willing to barrage your ethnicity for their sake, they would no doubt feel second-hand embarrassment but also either A) cut ties with you cause no sane person would want to be with a spouse generelizing their own people based on stereotypes, it's just one giant red flag. Or B) Use you as an ego trip since you keep reminding them how much better they are than what's basically your dad or mother. You're the lesser partner in this relationship since you've completely abolished your selfworth and dignity.

Now I understand, you might want to explore a bit, dabble on some exotic action, that's fine by me, just DO NOT put others down as you do it.

And lastly, excuse my kikuyu but why the f*ck are you making it a personality trait? It's like If I decided to ditch the national cuisine (God forbid) for malawax and started posting declarations, statements and announcements every chance I got whilst putting '#Canjeeroexit' under every username on every account I have. I don't care where your guu$ or $iil travels to. Keep that shit to yourself.

IM YOUR HUCKLEBERRY