In case of divorce, who should hold custody of the children? Mother or Father?

[jabsveg276]

I don't think it's right for the mother to obtain custody of the children 90% of the time.

If the father of the children makes more money, is willing to take care of the children and has a good record, he should get custody.

The person with more resources should be awarded custody, they need to change the court system.

If I ever got divorced and have children, ill fight to obtain custody over my children

 

[Kool-Aid]

I don't think it's right for the mother to obtain custody of the children 90% of the time.

This only really happens in the US, Canada and some other western countries.

 

[jabsveg276]

This only really happens in the US, Canada and some other western countries.

if the dad has more resources/makes more money, dad should have the kids

 

[i ✨]

Shared custody exists. Also having more resources shouldn’t be a sole indicator to obtaining custody. You can have less and still provide a loving home.

 

[jabsveg276]

Shared custody exists. Also having more resources shouldn’t be a sole indicator to obtaining custody. You can have less and still provide a loving home.

We don't know who's gonna have a more "loving" home, so we have to base it off of resources and records.

 

[Angelina]

Kids need their mum more. You were probably mostly raised more by your hooyo so your reasoning is dumb.

 

[pirater]

kids need their mother more than they need their father. a mother role is more important than a father role. just go fight for shared custody. why do you want the kids to only have one parent?

 

[jabsveg276]

Kids need their mum more. You were probably mostly raised more by your hooyo so your reasoning is dumb.

Why do children need hoyo more?

 

[jabsveg276]

kids need their mother more than they need their father. a mother role is more important than a father role. just go fight for shared custody. why do you want the kids to only have one parent?

Look at society right now, we have an absence of masculinity and we’re plagued with LGBT.

 

[pirater]

Look at society right now, we have an absence of masculinity and we’re plagued with LGBT.

if you're going to divorce get shared custody

 

[jabsveg276]

if you're going to divorce get shared custody

Reer America is handicapped

 

[Angelina]

We don't know who's gonna have a more "loving" home, so we have to base it off of resources and records.

Yes we do. The nature of men and women isn't the same. Which is why women are seen as more nurturing and why they are the ones that stay home and look after the kids whilst dad works. Women are the ones who give birth, breast feed. Children definitely need hooyo more than abo.

Most men with 'custody' don't even look after the kids themselves. They give the child to their mum or they get married again so a step mother raises them whilst they are at work.

 

[jabsveg276]

Yes we do. The nature of men and women isn't the same. Which is why women are seen as more nurturing and why they are the ones that stay home and look after the kids whilst dad works. Women are the ones who give birth, breast feed. Children definitely need hooyo more than abo.

Most men with 'custody' don't even look after the kids themselves. They give the child to their mum or they get married again so a step mother raises them whilst they are at work.

Look at society right now, it’s mostly women who get the children after a divorce. Most of these children grow up depressed, gay or have daddy issues. I’ve never heard of someone with mommy issues.

 

[Angelina]

Look at society right now, it’s mostly women who get the children after a divorce. Most of these children grow up depressed, gay or have daddy issues. I’ve never heard of someone with mommy issues.

The same shit if not worse would happen if kids only had their dad with no mum. People don't have mummy issues because most people have a hooyo on their lives.

There is a reason why heaven is under the feet of the mother and not the father. There is a reason why its mum, mum, mum and then dad. There is a reason why even when the parents are married, kids spend more time with mum than dad.

 

[jabsveg276]

The same shit if not worse would happen if kids only had their dad with no mum. People don't have mummy issues because most people have a hooyo on their lives.

There is a reason why heaven is under the feet of the mother and not the father. There is a reason why its mum, mum, mum and then dad. There is a reason why even when the parents are married, kids spend more time with mum than dad.

Ok.

 

[Kool-Aid]

It seems, that under Islam the kid is with the mom until their teenage years then it shifts to the father. Each party gets visitation rights though.

 

[jabsveg276]

It seems, that under Islam the kid with the mom until their teenage year then it shifts to the father.

@Angelina

 

[Angelina]

It seems, that under Islam the kid with the mom until their teenage year then it shifts to the father.

Which makes complete sense as when kids are under 8,they definitely need their mums more.

 

[Angelina]

@Angelina

There are differences of opinions. However it is a fact that under 8, kids are meant to be with the mum. There is no dispute when it comes to this.

 

[jabsveg276]

There are differences of opinions. However it is a fact that under 8, kids are meant to be with the mum. There is no dispute when it comes to this.

Okay then, when the kid turns 9, let the father hold custody.