I'm tired of not having a girlfriend

[Aegon]

I struggle with the girls as not possible; I may take the first step, be confident, grab numbers/snaps, be tactile, enterprising, know what I want by being subtle (so avoid the Friendsone) in the end the girl is never interested; I never see her again, be it become a friend

It pisses me off when I see all my buddies getting it without difficulty, it makes me jealous to see them living the life I would love so much to be happy..

Especially when I see some of my friends and other acquaintances, everyone knows the famous guys with dirty looks, not necessarily handsome, just lambda who f*ck hotties!! I get mad when I see it!

I really don't understand; why them and not me?

 

[YAMS]

Never ask "why someone else" and not you. Alhamdullilah. Allah SwT may be protecting you from something that is not good for you.

Focus on the self. Develop interests and hobbies. You'll meet the right woman doing the right things that you enjoy.

 

[repo]

Miskeen.

 

[Basra]

 

[TekNiKo]

Elyaaaz slapping that imaginary ass

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[Nilotic]

Have you seen a professional to address your mental health concerns and blocks? Have you actually tried to work out?

Stop feeling sorry for yourself; Get your education and make a living in a respectable field; develop interesting hobbies that add dimensions to your personality; learn to cook; dress with class and style; get the best colognes; learn to converse with people -- and you won't feel the need to put your insecurities into emission on the net.

 

[Clllam]

Balees hadalkaan naga jooji misee I’m calling your hooyo

 

[Keep it a boqol]

 

[Mount23]

Jooji this incel talk asap, no Somali/muslim male should be talking like this, Cadaans and indhoyars do this

 

[senor chang]

Jooji this incel talk asap, no Somali/muslim male should be talking like this, Cadaans and indhoyars do this

Lots of somalis are incels let's be real here

 

[ForwardSweep]

Lots of somalis are incels let's be real here

If Somali incels really do exist then their inceldom is self-inflicted. In my opinion, the only way a guy can't get a woman is if he's a gremlin or severely autistic to the point of being unable to hold conversations. First off I've never once seen a Somali gremlin in my life, male or female, and I don't think we have an autism epidemic in our community. What I think is really going on here is dudes listening to this pill talk and all this alpha/beta/ligma/digma male bullshit and believing it's legit and not just the male version of astrology. There's also the possibility of mental poisoning caused by p*rn and thirst traps on social media. We could have dudes looking at those women and thinking of them as their baseline standard. If you would only take a 10/10 to be your woman you should be a 10/10 or close to that yourself. I think having standards is fine but they should be realistic, otherwise inceldom is all that remains.

TL;DR The internet was a mistake for the diaspora and inceldom among Somalis is 100% self-inflicted

 

[Alexander The Great]

Women want Sigma males
Rn ur an Beta u need to change ur mindset and embrace ur inner sigma

 

[Djokovic]

brudda all u need is smartwhip and some qamro and ur gonna be drowning in siil

 

[Bundasliga]

If Somali incels really do exist then their inceldom is self-inflicted. In my opinion, the only way a guy can't get a woman is if he's a gremlin or severely autistic to the point of being unable to hold conversations. First off I've never once seen a Somali gremlin in my life, male or female, and I don't think we have an autism epidemic in our community. What I think is really going on here is dudes listening to this pill talk and all this alpha/beta/ligma/digma male bullshit and believing it's legit and not just the male version of astrology. There's also the possibility of mental poisoning caused by p*rn and thirst traps on social media. We could have dudes looking at those women and thinking of them as their baseline standard. If you would only take a 10/10 to be your woman you should be a 10/10 or close to that yourself. I think having standards is fine but they should be realistic, otherwise inceldom is all that remains.

TL;DR The internet was a mistake for the diaspora and inceldom among Somalis is 100% self-inflicted

"Somali and White children in Minneapolis were about equally likely to be identified with autism spectrum disorder. Somali and White children were more likely to be identified with autism spectrum disorder than Black and Hispanic children."

Minneapolis Somali Autism Spectrum Disorder Prevalence Project

rtc.umn.edu

 

[GemState]

Lots of somalis are incels let's be real here

You have to be a mouth breathing midget with an IQ of 50 to not be able to find a somali girl to marry. standards for somali guys is crazy low, any somali male professional is easily going to find a partner if they actually look for one

 

[Vanessa]

I want to assist finding a wife. Could you screenshot your txt conversation with a girl?