I'm NOT anorexic

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  1. Iskufilan

    Iskufilan

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    Yes I'm very particular about what I eat and I exercise a lot but that's only because I like control. I like the fact that I can exert a certain amount of energy on something where the results are so obvious. Whatever. What's the best way to shut down people who always have shit to say about my appearance?
    Ive always been skinny and super self conscious about eating in public but so what. Lolllll I sound defensive but food and exercise is my escape... I never wear tight clothes or anything to accentuate my shape but people, especially eedos think it's appropriate to touch my body while making stupid remarks. I hate people looking at me or touching me like I already wear baggy ass clothes. Help
     
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  2. Emily

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    You have food phobia, my dear. Eat nutritious food and do strength training, build some muscles. Build those narrow shoulders
     
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  3. Iskufilan

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    No I don't
    I think it's more of a people phobia tbh I eat plenty I just don't like people looking at me eat haaaa that sounds weird. I'm not stick thin I'm toned but skinny
     
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  4. Halimo-2018

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    They are jealous that you can eat and still be skinny. My causin is akinny af but eats more than anyone i know.as long as you're not starving yourself you are fine. people are hideous they talk shit about anyone yet wont remember what they said a week later. dont stress yourself over BS
     
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  5. MariaMaria

    MariaMaria Education, Peace and Prosperity

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    I used to have this problem. I'm still skinny but I don't care what people think anymore, don't feel uncomfortable about eating around people. If anyone comments on your weight anymore just tell them to stfu

    I grew up being told I was abnormal for being skinny , don't let fat eedos get in your head. Keep exercising and eating healthy.

    A lot of the comments come from self-hate tbh

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  6. Sidi Dirir

    Sidi Dirir audhu bikalimatillahi tammati min sharri ma khalaq

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    If you're skinny with no health issues you have eating problem. Try to eat more for 2 weeks you'll gain weight and know you had eating issues
     
  7. Halimo-2018

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    Some people will eat 3 of you as meal and never gain weight.
     
  8. Sidi Dirir

    Sidi Dirir audhu bikalimatillahi tammati min sharri ma khalaq

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    With no medical issues? I doubt. It's simple math really if a healthy person eats more than they burn, they gain weight otherwise they are not eating as much they think they are.
     
  9. Halimo-2018

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    true but there are a lot naturally skinny people. they just wont gain weight
     
  10. Active asylum

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    its that time of year when people are conscious of how they look xD.. Its the summer!!!! no more big jackets lol

    Ignore them sister,,, you know yourself more than anyone. If you are happy the way you look then stick with your diet.. Gaining weight isn't really hard , you just need to eat more and hit gym.

    Don't let eedos get to you ,, appreciate that they are the last generation of Somalis that experienced the civil war.. they had a different upbrining to you so expect different things..
     
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    people can lose and gain weight.. trust me its possible... if someone has high metabolism , they need to eat before they sleep and consume more often.
     
  12. Iskufilan

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    yeah I can't eat around people I feel self conscious so I eat most meals at home...I'm 56kg
     
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  13. Iskufilan

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    Thanks I'm actually in Australia so we're actually putting on jackets, I'm looking forward to hiding my body further lol
     
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  14. World

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    How tall are you? 56kg is a good weight for a woman actually.
     
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    56kg is a healthy weight tho
     
  16. MariaMaria

    MariaMaria Education, Peace and Prosperity

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    56kg is fine if you are shorter that 5"8 I think or maybe even taller

    Do get tormented a lot by your family or can you not even eat in public around strangers?
     
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    SJW cadaan caano science !
     
  18. Iskufilan

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    Nah it's a non issue with my family lol they think I'm kinda neurotic but I just have a complex when it comes to eating in public I feel like people are watching me even though I know they're not I just feel gross

    I'm 177cm so I know I'm not underweight at all plus bmi is generally bullshit. People's perception of "health" is almost always derived from your appearance and how that sits with them
     
  19. MariaMaria

    MariaMaria Education, Peace and Prosperity

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    I don't think your weight is the issue here but the fact you can't eat in public, try to see someone about that. It does sound like you have "food phobia" although you might think its easy to just not eat in front of people and just avoid it, food phobia can lead to other problems. It is similar to a
    Anxiety Disorder and you mental health is as risk if you let it carry on.

     
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  20. Halimo-2018

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    You should be my friend LOL i eat everywhere except the toilet! You have good manners. you should not feel bad. it's ok. some people dont like to eat alone at a restaunt and others dont mine.
     
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