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If you discovered that one of you is unable to have children after actively trying, would you stay together or divorce
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Halkaan rayigaaga ka dhiiboShare your opinion with us here
Yusuf Abdi Ali Rashid
King of Prussia
I’ll stay with her, even without children, and won’t seek another partner. The only difference would be me taking more frequent business trips to somalia.
Interested
Quite the Islamist.
I want to have kids. I guess that will a red line for me.
Men can marry multiple, but for us women it's different.
Men can marry multiple, but for us women it's different.
A Mean Guy
Minister of Ajanabi Affairs
I have seen a happy couple where the woman could not have children but the husband did not leave nor marry another wife.
Personally, I would stay with her and not marry a second wife, you are torturing her if you have children with the second wife and she will feel useless.
If I was the sterile one, I would divorce her so she can have children. I would not want to stand in the way of her happiness. Furthermore, this also eliminates the chance of my infertility being used against me in an argument. Maybe afterwards, I would choose to stay single or go for a garoob.
Personally, I would stay with her and not marry a second wife, you are torturing her if you have children with the second wife and she will feel useless.
If I was the sterile one, I would divorce her so she can have children. I would not want to stand in the way of her happiness. Furthermore, this also eliminates the chance of my infertility being used against me in an argument. Maybe afterwards, I would choose to stay single or go for a garoob.
Can always adopt, so many kids get fucked up by the system.
You're literally perfect.
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A Mean Guy
Minister of Ajanabi Affairs
But she's not
A Mean Guy
Minister of Ajanabi Affairs
Ayoo, Relax. Don't force something that never existed.@malab did you break up with that boyfriend of yours?
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He moved to Switzerland for studies@malab did you break up with that boyfriend of yours?
we haven't seen each other physically in a while besides everyone knows that my somalispot husband is @Jiron sorry @guycalledAmin you're my second choice though 
Yaraye
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you are already a married woman?!He moved to Switzerland for studies
A Mean Guy
Minister of Ajanabi Affairs
I didn't know bots were your typeHe moved to Switzerland for studies
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Odious Delirium
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Depends on what else I know about them.
There is a difference between a woman who always wanted kids and would divorce you if you where in her position (it's her right)
in that scenario I would get a second wife or if she has a problem with that then divorce I guess.
she would have done the same
however if she was ok with not having kid in the first place and i was the one who pushed for kids then I wouldn't marry again just adopt in that case.
But other factors can come into play and i could end up going in any direction
There is a difference between a woman who always wanted kids and would divorce you if you where in her position (it's her right)
in that scenario I would get a second wife or if she has a problem with that then divorce I guess.
she would have done the same
however if she was ok with not having kid in the first place and i was the one who pushed for kids then I wouldn't marry again just adopt in that case.
But other factors can come into play and i could end up going in any direction
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It would be brutal but I’d have to divorce
Yaraye
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how about after divorce she remarries and gets pregnant?
May Allah grant all of the Muslims here numerous children and grandchildren. Ameen.
