Sometimes humanity needs to be shouted at and told take several seats down. Understanding & tolerating every out of the norm things creates confusion. Its like u spoil a child when young, and then when they are old adults, u tell them to be un-spoiled. It aint working. Abuse your child actually, they will grow up with a chip on their shoulder and make something out of themselves. NEVER spoil a child, because u make them helpless from the getgo!