I like a girl but she does not like me

[primate]

What do I do if I like a girl and she liked me but now does not because I allegedly do bad things but I am willing to change and not do them and open up and be normal but she is not willing to take a chance because she thinks I am fucked up even though I am sort of not and it's more of confirmation bias on her part?

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[Jeffo]

You just keep being you till she loves you.

 

[Duchess]

Find another girl and get her to love you.

 

[Tokio]

actions speak louder than words..show her that you're a changed man...

 

[IntensiveCareUnit]

what do you mean confirmation bias on her part?

 

[primate]

what do you mean confirmation bias on her part?

I meant what if she is looking to confirm things that are not true but others may say are which results in me not having enough room to operate in and destroys my attempt to sneak into her life and kidnap her with my charms? Also what do I do if actions prove very little here cause the devils in prada are whispering in her ear but I want to whisper to her heart, it's all very frustrating I'm very nice.

I will sleep on it.

 

[Freebandz]

All this time I thought you were a female
As for your topic slap her around she'll start liking you

 

[IntensiveCareUnit]

I meant what if she is looking to confirm things that are not true but others may say are which results in me not having enough room to operate in and destroys my attempt to sneak into her life and kidnap her with my charms? Also what do I do if actions prove very little here cause the devils in prada are whispering in her ear but I want to whisper to her heart, it's all very frustrating I'm very nice.

I will sleep on it.

sounds like she doesn't have a mind of her own if she's listening to others. s.o.l sxb.

 

[Kaafiye]

Let it go. We've all been rejected at some point in our lives, and if she thinks you're fucked up now and she has a confirmation bias against you---NOTHING you do will be able to fix that.

If she becomes your girlfriend and you fight at some point (which will inevitably happen), she will lash out against you and bring up how bad you are and how many bad things you've done.

Trust me, we've all been in this predicament before. Let it go.

 

[Queen Carawelo]

On to the next one. Cheer up.

 

[Apollo]

All this time I thought you were a female

Same here.

@primate, change the avatar. it makes people think you are a woman.

 

[menace]

Move on kiddo I assure you that she's already prejudiced. She already rendered you a useless qashin. Move on to another chick that's not influenced.

Btw lay off that bottle

 

[SuldaanSeven]

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What do I do if I like a girl and she liked me but now does not because I allegedly do bad things but I am willing to change and not do them and open up and be normal but she is not willing to take a chance because she thinks I am fucked up even though I am sort of not and it's more of confirmation bias on her part?

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Here's what you did wrong with this girl. You went wrong on your first impression, it only takes the first 5 secounds for a girls subconscious to make a decision about you and guess what you fucked up on your first five secounds. What you do is don't waste another secound with this girl because you burned your opportunity already.

Find another target and don't f*ck up your first five secouds.

 

[NaomiHoney]

@primate

Sit her down, Look her in the eyes and tell her your not the man she thinks you are. then reminder her you have feelings for her.
She will feel the same way, and when she sees you for you then there will be bliss.

 

[primate]

@Laila

You make it sound like a movie. lol

f*ck it, it's been too long anyway. Thanks fam

 

[NaomiHoney]

@primate

No, that's how I would want a man to be.

 

[syntax]

Kkkkkk prim since when did u do bad things. Don't tell me she saw u walking through the cemetery loool

 

[primate]

Kkkkkk prim since when did u do bad things. Don't tell me she saw u walking through the cemetery loool

I dont know wtf you are talking about cemetery I didnt do nuttin you shut your mouth nigga you are not making me look good

@Laila, what if I haven't spoken to her in a while, would it still be okay?

 

[NaomiHoney]

@primate

Well, she may ask why you haven't spoken to her. However, there is no harm getting in contact again.