I feel played by my own aunty

[Cajiib]

I have an aunty who is an outcast. She married a kenyan and my family shunned her. So she calls me and says i have nothing. So i tell her i will send her $50.00 every month. She was so appreciative and happy. Then Six month down the road, she said that is not enuf. So i made it to$100.00.


Now she is muttering and whispering around. I told her-- sit down aunty, i can't afford more than $100.00 a month. Peiordt.



Now, after venting to my relatives about this issue, i found out, my aunty is getting $50.00 from her brother, my uncle and someone else. I have not confronted her with this , because i don't want her to be shocked that i know about her cunning ways.


But i am left being played?


Should i cut it back to $50.00 a month?


Or let it be and make sure dua out of it? The cheat-tation does sting! Someone else could use that $50

Does her husband not work? Maybe you should have a gentle talk with her about this new revelation. You might now the full picture now…

 

[Man with a garuun]

@Basra sis, whatever you pay for sadaqa, Allah (swt) will reward you. Please do what you can for someone who needs help, but make sure your aunt needs the money.

 

[Jiron]

@Basra sis, whatever you pay for sadaqa, Allah (swt) will reward you. Please do what you can for someone who needs help, but make sure your aunt needs the money.

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basra please keeping helping ur aunt, god bless u

 

[mrlog]

I have an aunty who is an outcast. She married a kenyan and my family shunned her. So she calls me and says i have nothing. So i tell her i will send her $50.00 every month. She was so appreciative and happy. Then Six month down the road, she said that is not enuf. So i made it to$100.00.


Now she is muttering and whispering around. I told her-- sit down aunty, i can't afford more than $100.00 a month. Peiordt.



Now, after venting to my relatives about this issue, i found out, my aunty is getting $50.00 from her brother, my uncle and someone else. I have not confronted her with this , because i don't want her to be shocked that i know about her cunning ways.


But i am left being played?


Should i cut it back to $50.00 a month?


Or let it be and make sure dua out of it? The cheat-tation does sting! Someone else could use that $50

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[mrlog]

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basra please keeping helping ur aunt, god bless u

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[Jiron]

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maybe the aunt really needs that money, we just don’t know what she’s going through. Let basra get tons of ajar

 

[zackattack]

Give the other 50 to another who needs it