How true is the claim that Somali women 27+ are struggling to get married

Leila

Wanaag iyo Dhiig kar
How old are you? I see this because I’m in my late 20s with friends in their late 20s/early 30s who are getting married. The men they’re marrying are of a similar age to them.
Very rare in the West though to see a Somali guy get married to a girl that is ten years younger. Do you mean seeing a 30 yr old Farah with a 25 yr old? That is normal. But I’ve hardly seen a 30-33 yr old Farah with a 20-21 yr old in the West.

Most people in the West tend to date within their generation. Statistics shows this and with the amount of weddings I’ve been to, Somali Westerners aren’t that different. On average the groom is 2-6 yrs older.

I know Somali couples that are of the same age, husband few years older than the wife and one couple where the girl is 2 years older than her husband. The only couples with a big age gap is when older Somali men go back home to marry a young girl.
 
You sound like you are parrotting Kevin Samuels talking points, instead of living in reality.
Maybe just maybe many men agree with Kevin samuels talking point? why does women always take offence at men stating their opinions? it’s like you want to decide their views n opinion for them? Imagine a man correcting YOU as a female for what you want in a man? i as a man accept females want wealthy men, my job as a MAN is make sure to be that man simple. You either listen to what men want or stay single arguing on social media like all bitter 30+ femcels screaming buzzwords n ”incel”.
 
Maybe just maybe many men agree with Kevin samuels talking point? why does women always take offence at men stating their opinions? it’s like you want to decide their views n opinion for them? Imagine a man correcting YOU as a female for what you want in a man? i as a man accept females want wealthy men, my job as a MAN is make sure to be that man simple. You either listen to what men want or stay single arguing on social media like all bitter 30+ femcels screaming buzzwords n ”incel”.

I truly do not care about what you like or don't like. I am sharing what I have seen with my own eyes, which is that most men and women are with people in their own age-range. You are free to go find a child-bride, nobody is stopping you.
 
And what ? you're the one who is Delusional for thinking a mid 20 year old women is Equivalent to a mid 30 year old women

I have never said that any group is more or less valuable than another group of people. I shared what I know to be true; which is that most people date and marry people in their own circles/age-range.
Like I advised your counterpart, Ogadenia, go find a much younger woman, and see if she thinks you are qaali or raqiis.
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
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And what ? you're the one who is Delusional for thinking a mid 20 year old women is Equivalent to a mid 30 year old women
I'm in my 30s, and guys on here still keep harassing me. :damn:I have had numerous requests to drink my bath water. Are they desperate for me, or just plain desperate? I haven't determined which one it is.
 
I'm in my 30s, and guys on here still keep harassing me. :damn:I have had numerous requests to drink my bath water and was even sent strange romantic fanfiction about me. Are they desperate for me, or just plain desperate? I haven't determined which one it is.
I'm in my 30s, and guys on here still keep harassing me. :damn:I have had numerous requests to drink my bath water. Are they desperate for me, or just plain desperate? I haven't determined which one it is.
"High value man "
 
I truly do not care about what you like or don't like. I am sharing what I have seen with my own eyes, which is that most men and women are with people in their own age-range. You are free to go find a child-bride, nobody is stopping you.
Your jumping to conclusion which is something only a small minded person does. Ive observed you enough and you n the feminist crew come off as extremly angry which makes sense bc you yourself dont believe in what ur spewing, if it was facts men prefer women their age when they 30 you wouldnt need to mention it everyday. Btw i dont need your approval just tryna broaden your mindset you come off as somebody who cant think outside the box n is all ab ME ME ME.
 
Your jumping to conclusion which is something only a small minded person does. Ive observed you enough and you n the feminist crew come off as extremly angry which makes sense bc you yourself dont believe in what ur spewing, if it was facts men prefer women their age when they 30 you wouldnt need to mention it everyday. Btw i dont need your approval just tryna broaden your mindset you come off as somebody who cant think outside the box n is all ab ME ME ME.


I saw the word 'feminist' and zoned out. I will place you on ignore, there is only so much ranting from angry little men that I am willing to spend my time on.
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
Staff Member
I saw the word 'feminist' and zoned out. I will place you on ignore, there is only so much ranting from angry little men that I am willing to spend my time on.
I find them funny. They act as though a 30-year-old woman would look in their direction. Generally, they wouldn't know she's that age, and if she's beautiful, she has other more suitable options that are similarly yoked and of the same emotional age. No one is attempting to change their preference. They are merely just stating what facts on the ground are like.

Most of these fobs learned to count recently and sparingly kept track of their biological age. Nearly all of them are Capricorns. I know several odeys who just got to retirement age but are really 78.​
 
I find them funny. They act as though a 30-year-old woman would look in their direction. Generally, they wouldn't know she's that age, and if she's beautiful, she has other more suitable options that are similarly yoked and of the same emotional age. No one is attempting to change their preference. They are merely just stating what facts on the ground are like.

Most of these fobs learned to count recently and sparingly kept track of their biological age. Nearly all of them are Capricorns. I know several odeys who just got to retirement age but are really 78.​

I wish I could like, laugh and 100 posts at the same time lol


That's right sis.

The ladies in their 30s, who are attractive and intelligent, were the same ones who were attractive and intelligent in their teens and in their 20s. These women could be in their 50s and they'd still rather gnaw off their own arm than look in their direction.
The only reason why they obsess over this imaginary 'hitting the wall' is because they think that it's their time for 'revenge'. Walahi I'm not trying to be rude, but you can see which social class these men fall into by reading their posts.

High-value, kulaha. More like 'great-value'..



:mjlol:
 

JohnCena

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I'm in my 30s, and guys on here still keep harassing me. :damn:I have had numerous requests to drink my bath water. Are they desperate for me, or just plain desperate? I haven't determined which one it is.
People here said this? They are down badddddddddddddddddddddd
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
Staff Member
I wish I could like, laugh and 100 posts at the same time lol


That's right sis.

The ladies in their 30s, who are attractive and intelligent, were the same ones who were attractive and intelligent in their teens and in their 20s. These women could be in their 50s and they'd still rather gnaw off their own arm than look in their direction.
The only reason why they obsess over this imaginary 'hitting the wall' is because they think that it's their time for 'revenge'. Walahi I'm not trying to be rude, but you can see which social class these men fall into by reading their posts.

High-value, kulaha. More like 'great-value'..

:mjlol:
Those guys hate that a pretty woman with a mind of her own indeed has options. Instead of being self-contented or working on themselves and ignoring women they don't like, they harp about them like a bitter ex.
It gives me a belly laugh too. :deadrose:The funniest of their little rag-tag band of Red Piller-Bassboor Bros is that Smoky fellow. Apparently, to him being a western Halimo over 20 and single means you are buraan or for the streets.
People here said this? They are down badddddddddddddddddddddd
I'm sure they were trolling me. Also, SSpot back in the day had some interesting yet wild characters.
 
Most of the somali women back home use them grown ass 30+ year old "ciyaal isuuq" faraxs for money (or for the passport). Some somali men want their wife to stay in Somalia in hopes of her not leaving him once she comes to the west or her not ending up like a "wester xalimo" but little do they know that most of them young girls back home have a whole different husband on the side and use diaspora faraxs for money. So the guys aren't lucky either lol most of them get played.
Brutal #BlackPill for fob enjoyers
 
I have never said that any group is more or less valuable than another group of people. I shared what I know to be true; which is that most people date and marry people in their own circles/age-range.
Like I advised your counterpart, Ogadenia, go find a much younger woman, and see if she thinks you are qaali or raqiis.
Context matters. I am referring to women and men who, in today's age have to push marriage away to achieve a higher socioeconomic status so their future children will live a comfortable life. A man in his 30s with higher socioeconomic status would always marry a younger, more beautiful woman with a lesser status than he has than to marry someone of a similar age or status. A woman in her 30s with higher status will have a hard time marrying because of two things. One is that most men in her socioeconomic status will likely marry, as I said before, a younger women, so she is competing with a more younger and beautiful women in their 20s. The second thing is that a women will not likely marry, and if she does she will be the sole provider that is hard a thing to be the sole provider and a mother at the same time. That is why, throughout history, women seek to marry up. You even find that in the animal kingdom well men throughout history marry a women in her most fertile/beautiful years and that is why men will always seek beauty and women will always seek statues.
 
Context matters. I am referring to women and men who, in today's age have to push marriage away to achieve a higher socioeconomic status so their future children will live a comfortable life. A man in his 30s with higher socioeconomic status would always marry a younger, more beautiful woman with a lesser status than he has than to marry someone of a similar age or status. A woman in her 30s with higher status will have a hard time marrying because of two things. One is that most men in her socioeconomic status will likely marry, as I said before, a younger women, so she is competing with a more younger and beautiful women in their 20s. The second thing is that a women will not likely marry, and if she does she will be the sole provider that is hard a thing to be the sole provider and a mother at the same time. That is why, throughout history, women seek to marry up. You even find that in the animal kingdom well men throughout history marry a women in her most fertile/beautiful years and that is why men will always seek beauty and women will always seek statues.


Please refer to my previous posts. I am running out of ways to tell you the same thing.
 

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