How can you marry someone without dating them?

[911]

This is one thing I dont understand
Dating is necessary to get to know someone on a romantic level
Rushing into marriage whilst barely knowing the person just seems like a divorce will be pending
I’m a muslim but this confuses me

 

[Muji]

@Inquisitive_ will give you an answer

 

[kaluumayste]

This is one thing I dont understand
Dating is necessary to get to know someone on a romantic level
Rushing into marriage whilst barely knowing the person just seems like a divorce will be pending
I’m a muslim but this confuses me

How do you define dating? i have seen people misusing this term.

 

[Mercury]

This is one thing I dont understand
Dating is necessary to get to know someone on a romantic level
Rushing into marriage whilst barely knowing the person just seems like a divorce will be pending
I’m a muslim but this confuses me

You could get to know a person over a cup of coffee or a walk in the park

What isnt allowed is when youre hugging and kissing the person or being with the person in a secluded area like a hotel or your place

 

[HalimaJ]

Depends on your definition of dating.

When talking to a guy for marriage, i would never call it 'dating', we are merely getting to know each other to see if we are compatible.

 

[Sophisticate]

Dating is an overarching term it can mean a gamut of things, generally, for Somalis, it has negative connotations.
According to my parameters, I have never dated.

Talking - No contact.

Dating - Some contact. Hell to the canjeero, no.

However, if dating is strictly about intent to get to know someone and meeting them in a public place, then sure.

 

[4head]

No. I will date only if it means i have to know the person i'm dating.
I can't be with someone i don't know.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

@Inquisitive_ will give you an answer

An answer Kulaha

He finna send an essay.

He currently typing up a storm right now

 

[Ameen]

How can you marry someone without having sex with them first?

 

[roble]

waa inaan bahalka yar hore ka helaa,, then we can discuss marriage in earnest.
no candy no marriage.

 

[jamal9]

How can you marry someone without having sex with them first?

only hoes have sex before marriage.

 

[Mercury]

waa inaan bahalka yar hore ka helaa,, then we can discuss marriage in earnest.
no candy no marriage.

If you had daughters what would you do if someone with that mindset came to them

 

[Yaquub]

This is one thing I dont understand
Dating is necessary to get to know someone on a romantic level
Rushing into marriage whilst barely knowing the person just seems like a divorce will be pending
I’m a muslim but this confuses me

Get engaged and get to know the person. Within that time you can break off the engagement and decide to leave the person if they are not suitable for marriage. At least that is how i plan to do it.

 

[mrlog]

Get engaged and get to know the person. Within that time you can break off the engagement and decide to leave the person if they are not suitable for marriage. At least that is how i plan to do it.

Bal neefkaan eega
When Engagement/nikaax is done than the fat lady has sung.
Breaking it off requires a talaaq/divorce

Ask @Basra our resident female cleric

 

[Basra]

How can you marry someone without having sex with them first?

What is the point to have sex before marriage?

 

[mrlog]

What is the point to have sex before marriage?

Same point as test driving a car before u purchase it at the dealership

 

[Basra]

Same point as test driving a car before u purchase it at the dealership

But when u test drive a car, your big booty dont make a permanent hole on the car chair. We r talking about opening the stitches of virginity here, and the spill of blood as a result of a permanent hole created.

 

[mrlog]

But when u test drive a car, your big booty dont make a permanent hole on the car chair. We r talking about opening the stitches of virginity here, and the spill of blood as a result of a permanent hole created.

Innaa lilaaahi
You just shat on the act of making sweet luv
Kulahaa permanent hole.

 

[Basra]

Innaa lilaaahi
You just shat on the act of making sweet luv
Kulahaa permanent hole.

Did u expect a cute pg 13 concoction?

 

[The alchemist]

You don't truly know a person until you have lived with him/her under the same roof. A relationship isn't real before you live together. Trust me, things changes and you truly see what the partner is really about.