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so a friend of mine is struggling to live a domestic abusive marriage ,the sheikhs is telling her to say because she had 5 kids and don't want him a bad rep
i offered everything to her , example? to live with me, move 30 mins out of the city with me . what should she do?
 

Nafiso Qalanjo

𝖂𝖊'𝖗𝖊 𝖌𝖔𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝖙𝖔 𝖜𝖆𝖗 𝖇𝖆𝖇𝖞!
If she cant divorce the guy she should ran away. Domestic violence doesn't get any better, and in worst case scenarios she can be killed by her abuser. But if she is more tougher than to just run away she should open a court case against her husband. If things turn out for the better not only will he be arrested but also they would be divorced.
 
honestly i would tell her to leave.but make sure she goes to court to becouse her kids could probably be taking away becouse of running away. also file a police report. 5 kids
i cant imagine what the kids experienced.
 

Dooyo

Inaba Caadi Maaha
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She needs to leave as soon as possible before he murders her. A man who beats a woman, his wife out of all people, is no man. He's a monster. He will never "get better" or stop abusing her, no matter how submissive and "perfect" she becomes. He'll always find an "excuse" to beat her. No dua or quraan saar will make him a better man, either. So any sheikh or elder that suggests that can shove it up their arse.

She needs to save up as much money as she can, either from her own money (if she has a job) or his money (like if he gives her a monthly bill for example). Call the popo and get this muddaf*cker arrested.
 

QueenofKings

Kick in the door wavin the .44
Ditto with what everyone’s saying. But the petty in me also would say does she have brothers who can give him the same experience? Some people learn by being literally put in the same shoes.

Different topic but also sheikhs really need training in counselling and an academic understand of why situations arise. Their job is too serious for them to be this ignorant! Like putting the onus on a battered wife to ‘save’ the marriage.
 

Mercury

Ha igu daalinee dantaada raac
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What's her reasoning for wanting to stay? That seems odd

Ive seen a documentary about domestic abuse the women they develop a mental illness if I remember it correctly its called battered wife syndrome in their mind they believe they are getting beat cause of something they did to upset the guy so they will always defend him even if he beats her
 
so a friend of mine is struggling to live a domestic abusive marriage ,the sheikhs is telling her to say because she had 5 kids and don't want him a bad rep
i offered everything to her , example? to live with me, move 30 mins out of the city with me . what should she do?
She should leave my opinion she shouldn't have went to get advise from sheikhs since those sheikhs will take men side she should have went to her family and ask her male relatives to beat the sht out of him and let him feel how she felt woman need to stop going sheikhs for advise if those womans have fathers and brothers or brother or any male relatives those woman's should tell their males relatives about this abusive issue and let male relatives deal with and beat the husband up
 
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BTW where is the woman tht got stabbed in the her family
It think Those womans tht stay in the abusive relationship are told tht if those woman's leave their husband will kill them I think tht is why those woman's stay
Idk why a woman tht is stabbed in the neck by her husband stay with him there is something wrong
 

Basra

LOVE is a product of Doqoniimo mixed with lust
Let Them Eat Cake
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so a friend of mine is struggling to live a domestic abusive marriage ,the sheikhs is telling her to say because she had 5 kids and don't want him a bad rep
i offered everything to her , example? to live with me, move 30 mins out of the city with me . what should she do?


  • Pray, pray, pray
  • Ask for Family Help
  • Go to women domestic center in your city, they have temporary housing
 
thank you all for the advice! im always going to be there for emotional support ! im the listening ear . its just heart breaking beouse you want to pull anybody out of that situation. but yes , ill be on stand by for her... my heart aches
 

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