Hijabi on Muslim TikTok gets cancelled for talking about modesty guidelines

[Do]

I couldn't find the original video on her account because she deleted her account (like a fulay) so there's only stitches of Muslim sisters calling her out. I only found the full video on r/TraditionalMuslims which is just a lame Desi incel sub with hardly anything to do with Islamic discussion.



In my opinion, she deserves to be getting all of this backlash for being absolutely insufferable in her delivery. Even this niqabi who's 'better' than her, according to her own metric, called her out.

 

[Do]

I don't even know why I bothered turning this into a whole thread.



I'm just at my wits end with Muslims on social media behaving like hateful animals guaranteed Jannah by virtue of being born Muslim. First time I use TikTok in ages and I see this shit...

Alx for the "Not Interested" button that allows for an algorithm carefully curated for what you want to actually invest your emotional energy in.

 

[Dharbash]

In my opinion, she deserves to be getting all of this backlash for being absolutely insufferable in her delivery.

Why so sensitive, she did good in her delivery. Sometimes you need to hammer things into people until they get it, it’s not always speaking softly as it doesn’t always work.

 

[Yaraye]

While what she is saying is true, her delivery is awful. I'm afraid it will cause the women who are struggling with the hijab to drift away even further.

Topics like these are always best handled with finesse and delicacy

 

[Galool]

Of course you would agree with liberals over Islam.

Your entire post history is you displaying your liberalism and attacking Islam and Muslims.

No one takes you seriously but murtads and gaals.

 

[Do]

Of course you would agree with liberals over Islam.

Your entire post history is you displaying your liberalism and attacking Islam and Muslims.

No one takes you seriously but murtads and gaals.

A niqabi is an anti-Islam liberal now?



Just stop commenting before you make yourself look any more uninformed and foolish than you already have on this forum.

 

[Do]

Why so sensitive, she did good in her delivery. Sometimes you need to hammer things into people until they get it, it’s not always speaking softly as it doesn’t always work.

There is a difference between using a firm tone of voice when simply stating the facts and her unnecessarily abrasive tone here where it sounds more like a mother scolding a child.

She let her inner frustrations and disdain for these women let loose, betraying the reasonableness of her overall message and naturally received backlash.

This could have been easily avoided if she rehearsed and scripted what she wanted to say because she comes off like she has a simmering-under-the-surface hatred for those women -- even to those who agree with her basic premise.

 

[Moon-]

i dissagree its not that deep you shouldn't be worrying about how someone else wears their hijab
most people know whats allowed and whats not they made a concious choice to wear what they're wearing

 

[Midas]

I understand why she got a lot of backlash. But I think this is the first video in years that I've actually seen of somebody actually talking about how she's against not wearing hijabi properly.

 

[Galool]

i dissagree its not that deep you shouldn't be worrying about how someone else wears their hijab
most people know whats allowed and whats not they made a concious choice to wear what they're wearing

That is not part of Islam.

In Islam we are taught to remind as reminders benefit the believers. We are taught to command good and forbid evil. The sister did not attack anyone personally and was completely correct about proper hijab. Why would being reminded about Islam upset a Muslim?

Live and let live and individualism is part of liberalism not Islam, it has deeply affected some people.

They will need to learn that it is not part of Islam and Muslims will continue to remind and speak on the teachings of Islam, that helps believers and helps the community.

It will not change.

 

[Internet Nomad]

 

[Do]

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According to Calool, Al-Ghazali would have been a liberal Muslim who had fundamentally anti-Islam beliefs, as extrapolated from his own criteria of judging this situation.

 

[Internet Nomad]

I dislike this brand of dawah, being harsh because even if your right you should still speak in a respectful manner because no matter how right you are if you speak in an alienating and harsh manner your not going to attract the people to your message. Doesn’t mean compromise but be aware of your audience.

Some people like that harsh reminder for reality and some like a soft spoken approach.

Personally I like a mix of the two.

 

[Angelina]

How awkward, the girl that’s aggressively advising her isn’t even wearing proper hijab herself. For starters, she’s wearing makeup. I’m not perfect, I too wear it and it’s something I want to stop, but I’m not going to jump on TikTok showing my face with makeup ranting about the correct hijab when I too am struggling to fulfill that.

 

[Cartan Boos]

Why so sensitive, she did good in her delivery. Sometimes you need to hammer things into people until they get it, it’s not always speaking softly as it doesn’t always work.

The Prophet spoke soft even with the most ignorant people

 

[Dharbash]

The Prophet spoke soft even with the most ignorant people

The Prophet was also truthful, you can’t really be truthful without also coming off as harsh. As long as you don’t insult someone then you’re fine, the Prophet was often blunt, also almost every comment to every video that stitched that video is agreeing with the original poster

 

[Dharbash]

i dissagree its not that deep you shouldn't be worrying about how someone else wears their hijab
most people know whats allowed and whats not they made a concious choice to wear what they're wearing

Somethings are Fard/compulsory, there’s no choice about the hijab lol

 

[Dharbash]

There is a difference between using a firm tone of voice when simply stating the facts and her unnecessarily abrasive tone here where it sounds more like a mother scolding a child.

She let her inner frustrations and disdain for these women let loose, betraying the reasonableness of her overall message and naturally received backlash.

This could have been easily avoided if she rehearsed and scripted what she wanted to say because she comes off like she has a simmering-under-the-surface hatred for those women -- even to those who agree with her basic premise.

Y’all are too sensitive, is she wrong? As long as she’s not insulting someone then being blunt about obligations like the hijab is actually good of her as it reflects the seriousness of it. She probably did it to get a lot of views which isn’t a bad thing, I doubt much people would’ve watched the video if she spoke in a meek voice and begged everyone to pray or to wear hijab and so on

 

[Do]

Y’all are too sensitive, is she wrong? As long as she’s not insulting someone then being blunt about obligations like the hijab is actually good of her as it reflects the seriousness of it. She probably did it to get a lot of views which isn’t a bad thing, I doubt much people would’ve watched the video if she spoke in a meek voice and begged everyone to pray or to wear hijab and so on

At this point, you're just being willfully ignorant to what I have actually asserted under this thread. I already stated that I agreed with her general point.

Bottom line is that the truth is already bitter as it is, so why make it taste more unbearably bitter in its delivery?

I agree with you on not watering down the significance of this issue by meekly whispering the advice from one sister to another, but she's not only being abrasive in her tone (the fact that you can't sense it is worrying) but hypocritical too, because what business does a Muslim woman with a full face of makeup have talking about proper hijab?

It adds to the intuitive feeling some have felt from her that she's reveling in her own feelings of moral superiority over these 'filthy non-hijabi wh0res' moreso than advising out of nothing but genuine concern.