Here is my reason why i have no interest in getting married

[Siren95]

Im in my mids 30's. Got married last month. I already regret it. Worst decision in my life. I Pay for everything, while she don't bring
nothing on table. Marriage is not for everyone.

I’m sorry walaal

 

[Siren95]

Another reason why you should only marry an educated woman, I cook my own food plus I’m already a germaphobe, I can’t even leave my room without first arranging the covers. I clean up after myself, I don’t need a maid or a woman to “look” after me. I do all that myself, what I need is an independent woman with her own qualifications and degree. In practice all I need is a partner not a servant. Someone I can say we’re on the same level. Nowadays you’ve got women with no skills who expect men to be traditional husbands but they won’t cook or clean. Nothing about them is traditional, some aren’t even modest. Anyways, what the hell im I gonna do with a stay at home wife? Always there when I come home and always present whenever i look over my shoulders. Hell I would even have my own separate room if I ever married a stay at home wife. I need my privacy, being alone is therapy, I can’t always be affectionate, just like it can’t always be night

I wish my husband was more like you. I’m an educated woman and I have many skills and hobbies. I cook and clean, I’m a germaphobe so I like my space to be clean and being in a clean environment keeps me in check mentally too. I love cooking, don’t know why modern day women hate it, I prefer homemade than buying food in restaurants that are overpriced and you don’t even know what the hell goes on in those kitchens. I prefer my own space too and don’t like too much affection.

 

[Siren95]

Tell that to your 40 year old and 60 year old self, when all that you enjoy won’t do it for you anymore, and your alone going home to nobody, whilst all your friends are surrounded by children and grandchildren.

traveling gets boring when your old, the body cant hack it after your 40’s a jet lag will take days to recover from.

as far as buying nice things well that’s all they are just things no value in the end.

I have met many people who are old and childless they might not admit it but in the end it’s a miserable existence.

Marriage is hard and so are raising kids but aren’t all things worth having meant to be a challenge.

You have to remember it’s not written in everyone’s decree to be married and have kids. Some people never get married because they’re not able to meet someone or if they do marry it ends in divorce. Who cares if the original poster wants to spend their money buying their own stuff and travelling, yeah you get travel lag but so what? It goes away after a day or two and the experience outweighs the travel lag. I won’t be looking back on my travels and complaining about feeling jetlagged when it seems so minuscule compared to the culture I discovered and the countries I visited. Having children is not easy, there is a huge sacrifice to be made, yeah you won’t be lonely when your old but who says you get to be lonely when you’re old?

 

[King Khufu]

I prefer Halal approved women by a sheikh only. No pretested used women. Call me a virgin chaser but if her and I deflower together it would be a night of karma sutra magic.

Okay I'm just batching because I wanted a team of beautiful Somali Girls on some Charlie's Angel's to come rescue me out of this place. Just killing some time till then.

 

[Bahamut122]

Tell that to your 40 year old and 60 year old self, when all that you enjoy won’t do it for you anymore, and your alone going home to nobody, whilst all your friends are surrounded by children and grandchildren.

traveling gets boring when your old, the body cant hack it after your 40’s a jet lag will take days to recover from.

as far as buying nice things well that’s all they are just things no value in the end.

I have met many people who are old and childless they might not admit it but in the end it’s a miserable existence.

Marriage is hard and so are raising kids but aren’t all things worth having meant to be a challenge.

What do if your kids end up caasi and abandon you in your old age? What if you get divorce and/or custody raped?

 

[Kane]

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[scarecrow]

You have to remember it’s not written in everyone’s decree to be married and have kids. Some people never get married because they’re not able to meet someone or if they do marry it ends in divorce. Who cares if the original poster wants to spend their money buying their own stuff and travelling, yeah you get travel lag but so what? It goes away after a day or two and the experience outweighs the travel lag. I won’t be looking back on my travels and complaining about feeling jetlagged when it seems so minuscule compared to the culture I discovered and the countries I visited. Having children is not easy, there is a huge sacrifice to be made, yeah you won’t be lonely when your old but who says you get to be lonely when you’re old?

Your thinking from a young person’s perspective. I see all the positives of traveling buying nice things and enjoying your money in your younger years. However do that for a few decades and it’s gets old and boring. What gives life meaning is people that care about you and vice versa. Think about it your parents will get really old or be dead eventually, your siblings will be around your age and you most likely grow apart, they will have theire own life’s. What will you actually have that’s meaningful? and yes most old people without a family are very lonely to answer your question.

What do if your kids end up caasi and abandon you in your old age? What if you get divorce and/or custody raped?

A lot of what ifs there! you can’t live your life in fear. If my kids end up caasi I must have done something wrong, even still at least I tried better than the guy who didn’t. If you get divorced and she takes your kids marry again and work at it the second time round. Pick a better wife! The experience will teach you and you will learn from it trust.