Here is my reason why i have no interest in getting married

[Keep it a boqol]

Been married 6 times and I hate it but I need vagina and the only way I can get it without hellfire is halal marriage .

Sometimes I sit and wonder how wonderful it would be a rich bachelor just spreading my seed and no marriage .
THE KAFFER LIFE HAS SOME PERKS













AND THEN YOU BURN

6 times?? What age was your first marriage?

 

[Basra]

Tell that to your 40 year old and 60 year old self, when all that you enjoy won’t do it for you anymore, and your alone going home to nobody, whilst all your friends are surrounded by children and grandchildren.

traveling gets boring when your old, the body cant hack it after your 40’s a jet lag will take days to recover from.

as far as buying nice things well that’s all they are just things no value in the end.

I have met many people who are old and childless they might not admit it but in the end it’s a miserable existence.

Marriage is hard and so are raising kids but aren’t all things worth having meant to be a challenge.

heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey lay off on the self hate!


ha ha ha ha ha



Your purpose in this short lived Dunyaa is to worship your lord- Allaah swt! The rest is Fitnah- including children

looool

 

[iphone1]

mid thirties and im engaged i already kno why i'll get divorced alcohol and rough sex.

im going to have a nice party though

 

[Geedi Ladane]

Both my parents got divorced when i was young kid back in 97 aswell witnessing divorce in my family and my cousin whom recently divorced her husband only was married for like a year. Divorce has become very common across all ethnicities and communities whether is Somali,muslim and across western society. Most women nowadays are not even trustworthy anymore in terms of not being honest about their past and what do modern day women actually bring to do the table, absolutely nothing to be honest. I run my own business, earns lots of money,travel and in the process of buying my house next year all thanks to my fruits of my hard work. Wallahi billahi the end of the day marriage is one big joke me and i don't want no kids as i want to enjoy my life and money until the day i die.

اَلسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُم وَرَحْمَةُ اَللهِ وَبَرَكاتُهُ‎

Sorry to hear about your parents. Happiness lies in fulfilling your purpose in life, which for us is to worship Allah alone. Allah tests us and we need to show gratitude by worshiping him. Don’t despair from the mercy of Allah

As for women amongst them there are those that are good and those that are bad. Strive to be a good person. Put your trust in Allah and he’ll bless you with a good spouse bithnillAh.

Marriage like any other blessing is a rizq from Allah, which can increase or decrease in accordance to your obedience to Allah. Not to mention Marriage is one of the things to actually increase in wealth according to the Islamic tradition ( Quran and Sunnah).

Amongst the greatest pleasures of this world that are halal are to have a good spouse. If happiness is what you look for then I sincerely believe you can only get this through living a life of taqwa. Try to look at people who have had successful marriages and try to perhaps get tips on what they did. Also don’t feel like because people around you are getting divorced then it will happen to you. Negative thoughts will lead to you taking bad actions which overtime can lead to bad results. Be optimistic, it’s the best thing you can do for yourself.
Lastly make sincere dua for yourself.

 

[Bundasliga]

Kullaha prenup



Prenup for what wealth? Most of us are not millionaires, so I don't get it.

What if you or your partner becomes one down the line

You don't have to be a millionaire or rich to make sense of a prenup . It's to make sure & agree to distribute both of your future assets (properties,cars,etc.) accordingly .

It's also to make a divorce less messy . Why should a 3rd party (government) & lawyers (who doesnt have your best interest) get involved ?

The last thing you want is get to court with a salty ex .

 

[senor chang]

This guy or girl made a thread about names for my future children and now talking about not wanting to get married

 

[Periplus]

This guy or girl made a thread about names for my future children and now talking about not wanting to get married

Top 10 quickest turn arounds *gone sexual*

 

[XawoTako]

Bruh theres so many socially awkward 23-29y/o Xalimos that are nurses, teachers, psychologists,etc that are desperate to get married. How can a Somali guy that is employed struggle to get married? Never understood it

Even if they desperately want to get marriage that doesn’t mean that they will settle for any man who proposes to them.

 

[Unbothered]

Im in my mids 30's. Got married last month. I already regret it. Worst decision in my life. I Pay for everything, while she don't bring
nothing on table. Marriage is not for everyone.

Paying the bills is one of your duties as a husband

 

[Qeelbax]

I hope all the miserable people stay away from marriage

 

[Somaligyaall]

Tell that to your 40 year old and 60 year old self, when all that you enjoy won’t do it for you anymore, and your alone going home to nobody, whilst all your friends are surrounded by children and grandchildren.

traveling gets boring when your old, the body cant hack it after your 40’s a jet lag will take days to recover from.

as far as buying nice things well that’s all they are just things no value in the end.

I have met many people who are old and childless they might not admit it but in the end it’s a miserable existence.

Marriage is hard and so are raising kids but aren’t all things worth having meant to be a challenge.

Calm down saxiib stop pressuring them into getting married, u sound like his father or sum.

 

[Nilotic]

What if you or your partner becomes one down the line

You don't have to be a millionaire or rich to make sense of a prenup . It's to make sure & agree to distribute both of your future assets (properties,cars,etc.) accordingly .

It's also to make a divorce less messy . Why should a 3rd party (government) & lawyers (who doesnt have your best interest) get involved ?

The last thing you want is get to court with a salty ex .

I agree with all of that, mate; I just think that people blow it out of proportion.


I try to illustrate things through trolling; I never used to troll until I got comfortable on this forum

 

[Aurelian]

Did you tell Hooyo, you are Gay?


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Why he will do that, that will be the end of his residency in the basement

 

[Wervelwind]

Im in my mids 30's. Got married last month. I already regret it. Worst decision in my life. I Pay for everything, while she don't bring
nothing on table. Marriage is not for everyone.

What is it like sxb? How did you meet her

 

[hamar_oo_iidil]

Tell that to your 40 year old and 60 year old self, when all that you enjoy won’t do it for you anymore, and your alone going home to nobody, whilst all your friends are surrounded by children and grandchildren.

traveling gets boring when your old, the body cant hack it after your 40’s a jet lag will take days to recover from.

as far as buying nice things well that’s all they are just things no value in the end.

I have met many people who are old and childless they might not admit it but in the end it’s a miserable existence.

Marriage is hard and so are raising kids but aren’t all things worth having meant to be a challenge.

Couldn't agree more bro

Most women nowadays are not even trustworthy anymore in terms of not being honest about their past

Why the knee jerk reaction of suspecting a woman of having a promiscuous past. Some of you brothers have this sick mentality of assuming women are all like that. There are a lot of women out there especially in our Somali community who value and preserve their chastity for their husband. I feel like you are projecting your own promiscuous past on all the women you meet. Very toxic.

Wallahi billahi the end of the day marriage is one big joke me and i don't want no kids as i want to enjoy my life and money until the day i die.

What is a joke is working so hard only to die with no offspring to inherit their father's wealth. You seem like a weak willed man.

 

[Wervelwind]

What is a joke is working so hard only to die with no offspring to inherit their father's wealth. You seem like a weak willed man.

You don't have to insult the brother. Marriage and kids are very demanding and not everyone is willing to make that sacrifice OR is suitable for it

 

[Basra]

You don't have to insult the brother. Marriage and kids are very demanding and not everyone is willing to make that sacrifice OR is suitable for it

I agree huuno. 100%


Nayaa--- @hamar_oo_iidil Settle down huuno. Lately u are unhinged with this self hate talk. ha ha ha ha ha


Children are a gift from Allaah swt. I don't want to put someone on the spot but Mr. Barkhad Abdi- Famous Mj Actor and success-- his Habar gidir wife has not become pregnant- for like over 10 years marriage now.


My point is- He who is successful with wealth and no children- can give it all to the nieces and nephews. That is right,

 

[Luffy]

Both my parents got divorced when i was young kid back in 97 aswell witnessing divorce in my family and my cousin whom recently divorced her husband only was married for like a year. Divorce has become very common across all ethnicities and communities whether is Somali,muslim and across western society. Most women nowadays are not even trustworthy anymore in terms of not being honest about their past and what do modern day women actually bring to do the table, absolutely nothing to be honest. I run my own business, earns lots of money,travel and in the process of buying my house next year all thanks to my fruits of my hard work. Wallahi billahi the end of the day marriage is one big joke me and i don't want no kids as i want to enjoy my life and money until the day i die.

You have to marry a simple poor girl in order not to be arrogant towards you, and she must be young

 

[Bahamut122]

Couldn't agree more bro


Why the knee jerk reaction of suspecting a woman of having a promiscuous past. Some of you brothers have this sick mentality of assuming women are all like that. There are a lot of women out there especially in our Somali community who value and preserve their chastity for their husband. I feel like you are projecting your own promiscuous past on all the women you meet. Very toxic.


What is a joke is working so hard only to die with no offspring to inherit their father's wealth. You seem like a weak willed man.

I’m assuming you’re married yourself right?

 

[Ladylike]

Marriage is a choice don’t do it unless you feel ready for it till then looks like you’re doing great for yourself enjoy your blessings walal