Lowly i feel bad for him but thirteen years of dating her and sending her money? He's also at fault here but that really is an awful women and a stupid man. She beyond cruel letting him hang onto her for thirteen years to such him dry, if I was her husband I'd divorce on the spot because she's online dating another man as a scam artist and stealing money from him. Imagine all the food or furniture that haaram money could've been used on. For all we know it could be for the sheets of their bed to his Shaax cup. I sincerely doubt the husband didn't know but if he didn't he needs to serve her those papers ASAP I don't know anyone who would want a scam artist rasing their children.