all the women that I know that are getting married are those that would not listen to their parents and would go on dates etc . Obviously they’re the ones in the mid twenties with life partners whilst the miskeen Muslim girls have no options . No wonder why we’re seeing so many threads on Reddit etc with women struggling to get married .
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all the women that I know that are getting married are those that would not listen to their parents and would go on dates etc . Obviously they’re the ones in the mid twenties with life partners whilst the miskeen Muslim girls have no options . No wonder why we’re seeing so many threads on Reddit etc with women struggling to get married .
reddit... reddit where I got banned from Bangladesh for not being pro lgbt
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Marriage is in the hands of Allah. If you put your trust and faith in him you will end up getting better than what you’d wish for!
Allah controls everything don’t you ever forget.
People forget that marriage is rizq. You will get only what was decreed for you. Do what you can (without crossing boundaries) and have tawakkul. Shaytan will encourage you to take matters into your own hands and engage in haram, whether it is to increase your income or in this case find a spouse. In the end you will still get what you were destined to get but on top of that earn the anger of Allah ﷻ.
True and I am married
I have a grown friend who is awkward on dates .
I have a grown friend who is awkward on dates .
The issue lies more in being passive and never leaving your comfort zone
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I think over the next few years these topics will be discussed More frequently
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I regret listening to my parents on this issue. They were wrong. I think my parents did it on purpose.
Somali women are socially awkward so it makes sense why some are having trouble.
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Ugly girls finish last
I know alot of ugly, married girls so that can't be true. They played their cards right though and are not crying online about the consequences. Female delusion is what makes you finish last.
Honestly feel the same. It's even worse being antisocial as a man imo since being shy as a woman can be endearing but not so much for men.
*socially awkward and friendless girls finish last
I think when you leave your comfort zone and fall flat on your face multiple times that starts to sting. Also that sense of being lied to about how easy dating/marriage is for women. Maybe that was the case 30 years ago but even regular guys expect you to be outgoing, fun, worldly even when they aren’t.
@ImanStan001 think the hardest part about it all is I can accept my own bad decisions. Allah knows I’ve made plenty of those. It’s when you made certain decisions out of good faith towards your parents and then them implying that you should’ve done the opposite is what boils my blood sometimes. There’s nothing I wouldn’t give to go back and just do things my way whether or not they don’t work out doesn’t matter to me. It’s the anger that creeps up on me sometimes that I can’t get over. It’s like you’re being punished for doing the “right” thing and then to be mocked/dismissed by some males as being picky and deserving of your position is cruel. Outside of the awkwardness I am a decent person.
As wild as some of @DangerBadan posts are, at my core I can resonate with some of them. Most Somali men don’t know what that’s like because they don’t have as strict restrictions when they were growing up.
As wild as some of @DangerBadan posts are, at my core I can resonate with some of them. Most Somali men don’t know what that’s like because they don’t have as strict restrictions when they were growing up.
It’s unfortunate a lot of women have been lied to. I just make sure to inform younger girls to make choices based on what you want for yourself in the future. If you want marriage and children you should work towards that. It’s not just going to fall into your lap.
I realized you have to shoot your shot at these Abdis. Miskeen guys are also fellow cave dwellers. They are likely hesitant and hyper vigilant as well.
On the other hand, those who knock on your cyber luuq for the intention of shukaansi often have a history of being a menace. They likely casually pursue women so I suggest you vacate the premise.
On the other hand, those who knock on your cyber luuq for the intention of shukaansi often have a history of being a menace. They likely casually pursue women so I suggest you vacate the premise.
Yes it does seem like some Somali parents use their daughters like economic mules. I saw a post years back on Reddit of a 30+ Somali woman whose mother and aunts would stop her and her female cousins from getting married. They would also take her salary and send it to people back home or spend the bulk of it on themselves. It was an extreme post but i can imagine some parents having a similar mentally but not going as crazy on the approach.
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That makes no sense. Ethnicity doesn’t determine your personality.
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