Funny post on R/Somalia what do y’all think ?

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

What do y’all think about this topic I’d like to see peoples opinions she’s going in on diaspora niggas who go back home

 

[Prince of HS]

Only marry back home if you move back home in general. Why the hell would you marry a women and not be in the same country for most of the time. Your asking to get played at that point

 

[Dualke]

How is her English so good?
@Based are fobs capable of writing like this without visiting the west?

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

Only marry back home if you move back home in general. Why the hell would you marry a women and not be in the same country for most of the time. Your asking to get played at that point

Facts I don’t know how the adeers do it yo there asking to get finessed

 

[Prince of HS]

Facts I don’t know how the adeers do it yo there asking to get finessed

Women back home love the shuukaansi game more than the ones here. Guys think girls back home are sheltered up goody two shoes when it really isn’t the case

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

How is her English so good?
@Based are fobs capable of writing like this without visiting the west?

That’s the part that had me dying she’s clearly from the diaspora you can tell by the writing style loool I wonder why she’s pretending to be a fob

 

[JackieBurkhart]

Women back home love the shuukaansi game more than the ones here. Guys think girls back home are sheltered up goody two shoes when it really isn’t the case

I sometimes be feeling diaspora parents are more strict. That and the Somali community here as well. Everyone knows your business and they know each other as well. You don't have any freedom in the heartland of Somalis: Minnesota.

 

[Dualke]

That’s the part that had me dying she’s clearly from the diaspora you can tell by the writing style loool I wonder why she’s pretending to be a fob

Damn I got my hopes up too

 

[GaradShabeel]

I sometimes be feeling diaspora parents are more strict. That and the Somali community here as well. Everyone knows your business and they know each other as well. You don't have any freedom in the heartland of Somalis: Minnesota.

True. Qurbajoogs are more strict. Since Somali parents settled amongst 'gaals', they felt the need to protect us from the 'gaal lifestyles or influence', which they think don't happen back home. Thus, are daaljoogs more free and less judgemental in a way.

The aspect of Somali community being 'tight knit' or at least knows each other's business, happens everywhere where a significant amount of Somalis live. I can assure you it ain't a MN thing alone.

 

[JackieBurkhart]

True. Qurbajoogs are more strict since Somali parents settled amongst 'gaals'. So they feel the need to protect us from the 'gaal lifestyles or influence', which they think don't happen back home.

The aspect of Somali community happens everywhere where a significant Somalis live. I can assure you it ain't a MN thing alone.

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[Odious Delirium]

True. Qurbajoogs are more strict. Since Somali parents settled amongst 'gaals', they felt the need to protect us from the 'gaal lifestyles or influence', which they think don't happen back home.

The aspect of Somali community being 'tight knit' happens everywhere where a significant Somalis live. I can assure you it ain't a MN thing alone.

yeah why do you think dacan celis kids come back worse. there parents had more of ahold on them in the west. in somalia you can do whatever you want and get away with it. they have a night life like anywhere else plus no one will check you or snitch on you over there.

 

[GaradShabeel]

yeah why do you think dacan celis kids come back worse. there parents had more of ahold on them in the west. in somalia you can do whatever you want and get away with it. they have a night life like anywhere else plus no one will check you or snitch on you over there.

Unfortunately, our parents were naive in this regard. They thought being in a 100% Somali and muslim environment was enough to get ciyaal qurbajoog straight, but little did they know that their kids could continue with the same shenanigans back home, and even worse

 

[Hmohamed54]

I married back home and in the proccess of bringing her here. But why in the world would you marry someone and leave them there ? Dont you love her ? I think the problem is he probably has a type and is scared of the possible outcome of her doing him wrong.

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

yeah why do you think dacan celis kids come back worse. there parents had more of ahold on them in the west. in somalia you can do whatever you want and get away with it. they have a night life like anywhere else plus no one will check you or snitch on you over there.

Wallahi one of my homies back in high school use to call me every time telling me they stuff they were getting up to back home it was crazier then in The west you gotta supervise your kids you can’t just leave them there

 

[GaradShabeel]

Wallahi one of my homies back in high school use to call me every time telling me they stuff they were getting up to back home you gotta supervise your kids you can’t just leave them there

Somalia is at least somewhat better than Kenya where a lot of kids get sent to. A literal gaal country where everything is permitted. If that ain't a recipe for disaster, then I don't know what is

 

[Yaraye]

I married back home and in the proccess of bringing her here. But why in the world would you marry someone and leave them there ? Dont you love her ? I think the problem is he probably has a type and is scared of the possible outcome of her doing him wrong.

 

[Netflix]

She is right. Marrying a girl from back home is the Somali equivalent of getting a mail-order bride.

 

[NordicSomali]

Oh she’s definitely jealous . She ends the post by asking a question and yet when people give her an answer she wants to continue arguing . Looks like she’s just there to argue .

 

[NordicSomali]

Wh

She is right. Marrying from back home is the Somali equivalent of getting a mail-order bride

Did you ignore the part about raising their kids there and getting the right dhaqan and deen?

 

[Kane]

I never understood that either, marrying a woman from back only to bring her here.

if I was planning to live in the west, I would marry the best option possible to me in my area.

I’ve heard many stories where the wife left her husband, as soon as she learned the language, got a job and started networking.