Freedom or Lack of Responsibility? You decide.

[Kane]

I had an interesting conversation with a Religious Somali lady, who grew up in Saudi.As we were taking,she asked a question with a scenario.

(Her) if a Somali girl, a Somali guy and an Ajinabi guy were neighbors.

The ajinabi man would comfortably and without any hesitation,knock on the Somali girls door, even visit her home . But if the girl was an Arab the same thing would never occur. Somali women do tahriib all by themselves.

What is the cause of this?


(Me)in your opinion (Lol) or as a general fact.

(Her) No General Fact?!

(Me) xoriyad (freedom).

(Her) No that’s wrong!!

(Me) Ok what is it then?

(Her) Somali men have lost masuuliyad (Responsibility) for their women unlike the Arabs.Who use violence against their women but are at least responsible for them.

so what does it really come down to? Lack of responsibility or Freedom.

 

[notinuse.]

This dumb qumayo is obviously brainwashed by arabs, judging by the fact that she grew up in Saudi Arabia. Even though I have my fair share of criticism against somali males one thing for sure is they're not barbaric enough to chop off heads of their female counterparts or do retarded shit like "honour killings" unlike Arab and South-asian men. Her definition of "responsibility" is ownership, treating women like a property.

 

[Odious Delirium]

I had an interesting conversation with a Religious Somali lady, who grew up in Saudi.As we were taking,she asked a question with a scenario.

(Her) if a Somali girl, a Somali guy and an Ajinabi guy were neighbors.

The ajinabi man would comfortably and without any hesitation,knock on the Somali girls door, even visit her home . But if the girl was an Arab the same thing would never occur. Somali women do tahriib all by themselves.

What is the cause of this?


(Me)in your opinion (Lol) or as a general fact.

(Her) No General Fact?!

(Me) xoriyad (freedom).

(Her) No that’s wrong!!

(Me) Ok what is it then?

(Her) Somali men have lost masuuliyad (Responsibility) for their women unlike the Arabs.Who use violence against their women but are at least responsible for them.

so what does it really come down to? Lack of responsibility or Freedom.

That's because she's a foreigner in his country and if push comes to shove he has the final say if people got involved and because they are from two different communities automatically there is less repercussions since a rumour spreading in the somali Community has no effect on the arab same visversa.

Guys from every group are more bold with female not of there background since they can move as if they are virtually anonymous. If you look towards a fair play feild like across the western world for example the UK. I have personally noticed somali guys in general are more bold in letting there real personality come out with ajnabi girls but are meek and timid around somali girls since there is a possibility anything they do could get back to there families same applies to females aswell(obviously there are the exception who dont care). So they tend to move cautiously around there own I see the same in the Asian community that I live around. (Women will accept the attention they receive from foreigners but are extremely cautious when they receive that same energy from there own)

basically it's not a freedom or responsibility thing its a hypocrisy thing because everyone wants to keep up there image within there community. Since most people want to get married within there community and would also like to get the best deal they can get and getting caught up in rumours will simply only effect them negative.

 

[NordicSomali]

I really hate women like this, be independent, don’t rely on a man for anything just because he’s a man.

 

[Kane]

Her definition of "responsibility" is ownership, treating women like a property.

She made me see things from another point of view, and in life the truth always lies some where in the middle.

even though I agree with your statements, could it be said, that some women take their innate freedoms for granted?

Guys from every group are more bold with female not of there background since they can move as if they are virtually anonymous. If you look towards a fair play feild like across the western world for example the UK. I have personally noticed somali guys in general are more bold in letting there real personality come out with ajnabi girls but are meek and timid around somali girls since there is a possibility anything they do could get back to there families same applies to females aswell(obviously there are the exception who dont care). So they tend to move cautiously around there own I see the same in the Asian community that I live around. (Women will accept the attention they receive from foreigners but are extremely cautious when they receive that same energy from there own)

this is true women are more open and liberal, with men they don’t see as potential spouse. And men are more confident with foreign women as well.

basically it's not a freedom or responsibility thing its a hypocrisy thing because everyone wants to keep up there image within there community. Since most people want to get married within there community and would also like to get the best deal they can get and getting caught up in rumours will simply only effect them negative.

I really hate women like this, be independent, don’t rely on a man for anything just because he’s a man.

A women should be self sufficient to a degree, and yet leave enough room a man to play a vital role.

but women can have male relatives who look after them, and protect them from the wolves.

 

[niggaibnh]

I had an interesting conversation with a Religious Somali lady, who grew up in Saudi.As we were taking,she asked a question with a scenario.

(Her) if a Somali girl, a Somali guy and an Ajinabi guy were neighbors.

The ajinabi man would comfortably and without any hesitation,knock on the Somali girls door, even visit her home . But if the girl was an Arab the same thing would never occur. Somali women do tahriib all by themselves.

What is the cause of this?


(Me)in your opinion (Lol) or as a general fact.

(Her) No General Fact?!

(Me) xoriyad (freedom).

(Her) No that’s wrong!!

(Me) Ok what is it then?

(Her) Somali men have lost masuuliyad (Responsibility) for their women unlike the Arabs.Who use violence against their women but are at least responsible for them.

so what does it really come down to? Lack of responsibility or Freedom.

Because Somalis men don’t police their women compare to South Asian and Arab mens to be honest unless if it’s someone close such as sister, cousin etc

we shouldn’t use violence toward women like Arab and south Asian men but in the same time tell them off .

I don’t know really but I can’t just tell off random Somali women that I don’t know about the haram stuff between her and the arab men ( the scenario she made ) cuz I’m gonna feel very awkward. Who knows I would probably assume they’re married