Females don't forget nothing & could keep a grudge for the longest

[Cognitivedissonance]

I have a bad habit of speaking my mind and at times without considering how the person would feel. Cut a long story short there's a female friend that I chat to now and then. I have been in contact with her on and off for the past 3 months and I've noticed she doesn't seem like herself, I thought it was odd but never followed it up. The last time I saw her I asked her why she was withdrawn & wasn't like her usual self.

After half an hour of explaining many other things except the question I asked I was adamant that she gives me a straight foreard answer and that she stops beating behind the bush.

It turns out that she was angry about some off the cuff remark I made about her that I couldn't even remember saying

She kept a grudge all that time I'm lucky she didn't poison my food wallahi

My question is do you think females hold grudges longer & keep more things hidden like smile in your face while they despise you for a comment or observation you made?

Is this why prophet Muhammad pbuh said becareful of women

Is that why they say hell hath no fury like a woman scorned

 

[ItsHanna]

Boy shut the f*ck up stop bashing women

You hurt her feelings without realising. It says more about you than her. You lack empathy.

 

[Bohol]

It is true women don't forget things once you slip it is hard for them to forgive you.

 

[DuctTape]

Females don't forget nothing

That's a double negative
Are you saying that they forget everything? :siilaanyosmile:

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[Mohamud]

i told one of those white gyals would kill you if you didn't drop 'em sxb but did you listen?

did you listen?

 

[Ubax45_]

We do not forgive

We do not forget

 

[XamarCade]

They actually have feelings?

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Boy shut the f*ck up stop bashing women

You hurt her feelings without realising. It says more about you than her. You lack empathy.

Why don't she just talk it through like grown ups or even the next day or maybe the next week but to chill with someone you have hostility towards acudu billahi Mina shadani rajiim

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

i told one of those white gyals would kill you if you didn't drop 'em sxb but did you listen?

did you listen?

She wasn't cadaan the girl you're referring to was quarter caste how many people call Mariah Carey white

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

We do not forgive

We do not forget

Like the zionists

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

They actually have feelings?

So if you were offended by what someone said you would just hold it in and hold firmly to a grudge?

A real man would talk things through you sound like you're in touch with your feminine side good on you bro masha Allah and here's me thinking you were a misogynist prick

 

[XamarCade]

So if you were offended by what someone said you would just hold it in and hold firmly to a grudge?

A real man would talk things through you sound like you're in touch with your feminine side good on you bro masha Allah and here's me thinking you were a misogynist prick

 

[Reign]

This is true, I hold grudges, only towards people I love and have high expectations of.

 

[Ubax45_]

So ...was what you said wrong? Yes or No

Still refering to it as an "off the cuff remark" seems to be minimizing the issue.

 

[Yahya Liban-Lewis]

Females are intellectual and they are needed to improve Somalia.

Only insecure xaars who call themselves "men" feel insecure around beautiful women and can't conduct themselves like a real man should.

 

[AussieHustler]

Also, women are nourishing, caring and loving people unlike us men who are quarrelsome, cruel and destructive creatures. Just look at our country, Somalia. A prime example of the roles men and women play in a society. What else did Mohamed say about women other than what you already mentioned and they mostly dwell in hell for merely gossiping, while killers & rapists (men) will be forgiven and get a pass to "heaven".

Continue with your women bashing pastime.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

This is true, I hold grudges, only towards people I love and have high expectations of.

Some Females are good actors they'll act like they're happy and smile in your face when deep down they want to kill you

I never knew I was chilling with someone who bore a grudge against me i felt like I was chilling with the enemy all this time

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

So ...was what you said wrong? Yes or No

Still refering to it as an "off the cuff remark" seems to be minimizing the issue.

If I really meant it then I wouldn't of forgotten, there was no malice on my part.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Females are intellectual and they are needed to improve Somalia.

Only insecure xaars who call themselves "men" feel insecure around beautiful women and can't conduct themselves like a real man should.

i concur.

 

[Reign]

Some Females are good actors they'll act like they're happy and smile in your face when deep down they want to kill you

I never knew I was chilling with someone who bore a grudge against me i felt like I was chilling with the enemy all this time

Are you two close? Most girls only hold grudges towards people they care about.