Female friend of mine tries to set me up with her friend....

I'm in summer school and this female friend that I've known for a while now from Uni is trying to set me up with one of her homegirls.
problem is that shawty has tats bro. Honestly, I don't even care that much, but there's no way I could bring a ting with tats home to my dukes. She's a nice girl otherwises, she's not a bad girl, but damn. I ain't trying to deal with the stress of that. I can't go to her and be like "I can't date you cause you have tats and my mom and dad wouldn't like that" I'm an adult, that would be so corny if I said that.

So instead, I am literally just acting like the most boring, dryest dude in texts(I have her number), so she doesn't end up liking me, but I can tell it's annoying my female friend because she tried to set up the whole ting but I'm being so dead towards the gyal.

wallahi, this is a messed situation.
 

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I'm in summer school and this female friend that I've known for a while now from Uni is trying to set me up with one of her homegirls.
problem is that shawty has tats bro. Honestly, I don't even care that much, but there's no way I could bring a ting with tats home to my dukes. She's a nice girl otherwises, she's not a bad girl, but damn. I ain't trying to deal with the stress of that. I can't go to her and be like "I can't date you cause you have tats and my mom and dad wouldn't like that" I'm an adult, that would be so corny if I said that.

So instead, I am literally just acting like the most boring, dryest dude in texts(I have her number), so she doesn't end up liking me, but I can tell it's annoying my female friend because she tried to set up the whole ting but I'm being so dead towards the gyal.

wallahi, this is a messed situation.
Just tell her you're not looking to get married anytime soon, unless you're ready financially and mentally to take care of a women.
 
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I'm in summer school and this female friend that I've known for a while now from Uni is trying to set me up with one of her homegirls.
problem is that shawty has tats bro. Honestly, I don't even care that much, but there's no way I could bring a ting with tats home to my dukes. She's a nice girl otherwises, she's not a bad girl, but damn. I ain't trying to deal with the stress of that. I can't go to her and be like "I can't date you cause you have tats and my mom and dad wouldn't like that" I'm an adult, that would be so corny if I said that.

So instead, I am literally just acting like the most boring, dryest dude in texts(I have her number), so she doesn't end up liking me, but I can tell it's annoying my female friend because she tried to set up the whole ting but I'm being so dead towards the gyal.

wallahi, this is a messed situation.
Be honest. You’re an adult right??? You get to chose who you want to be with.
 
I'm in summer school and this female friend that I've known for a while now from Uni is trying to set me up with one of her homegirls.
problem is that shawty has tats bro. Honestly, I don't even care that much, but there's no way I could bring a ting with tats home to my dukes. She's a nice girl otherwises, she's not a bad girl, but damn. I ain't trying to deal with the stress of that. I can't go to her and be like "I can't date you cause you have tats and my mom and dad wouldn't like that" I'm an adult, that would be so corny if I said that.

So instead, I am literally just acting like the most boring, dryest dude in texts(I have her number), so she doesn't end up liking me, but I can tell it's annoying my female friend because she tried to set up the whole ting but I'm being so dead towards the gyal.

wallahi, this is a messed situation.
Be brave and tell her (or the person who put you in contact) you are not compatible with her. You don’t have to give a reason. You prolonging it is a waste of everyone’s time.
 
if you want to put her off, don't act dry lol, that doesn't work on girls. if you want to put her off, act too into her. She will be the one ghosting you

act corny, send her heart eyes :it0tdo8::it0tdo8::it0tdo8:😍

is she somali? romance her in somali, abaayo macaan, sonkorey, send her several texts in a row. act clingy etc
 
if you want to put her off, don't act dry lol, that doesn't work on girls. if you want to put her off, act too into her. She will be the one ghosting you

act corny, send her heart eyes :it0tdo8::it0tdo8::it0tdo8:😍

is she somali? romance her in somali, abaayo macaan, sonkorey, send her several texts in a row. act clingy etc
Yooo that would work on some people too.
 
if you want to put her off, don't act dry lol, that doesn't work on girls. if you want to put her off, act too into her. She will be the one ghosting you

act corny, send her heart eyes :it0tdo8::it0tdo8::it0tdo8:😍

is she somali? romance her in somali, abaayo macaan, sonkorey, send her several texts in a row. act clingy etc
So this is why some 'Say Wallahi' girls ghosted me. Man I thought I was Romantik!
You live and learn.
 
if you want to put her off, don't act dry lol, that doesn't work on girls. if you want to put her off, act too into her. She will be the one ghosting you

act corny, send her heart eyes :it0tdo8::it0tdo8::it0tdo8:😍

is she somali? romance her in somali, abaayo macaan, sonkorey, send her several texts in a row. act clingy etc
That moment when a mf describes ur moves as a tutorial to get ghosted.
:jcoleno:


I’m going be rethinking my life every time before I send that macaaney or 😍 to my girl
:damn:
 
That moment when a mf describes ur moves as a tutorial to get ghosted.
:jcoleno:


I’m going be rethinking my life every time before I send that macaaney or 😍 to my girl
:damn:
maybe some girls don't mind that, but I think most of us western raised somali girls prefer a guy to be a bit detached :ftw9nwa: maybe thats just me. not too much, to the point its rude, but just enough to leave something to the imagination, you know what I mean?
 
maybe some girls don't mind that, but I think most of us western raised somali girls prefer a guy to be a bit detached :ftw9nwa: maybe thats just me. not too much, to the point its rude, but just enough to leave something to the imagination, you know what I mean?
I am a detached person myself so I need someone corny, romantic and clingy. It’s so rare but I am praying.
 

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if you want to put her off, don't act dry lol, that doesn't work on girls. if you want to put her off, act too into her. She will be the one ghosting you

act corny, send her heart eyes :it0tdo8::it0tdo8::it0tdo8:😍

is she somali? romance her in somali, abaayo macaan, sonkorey, send her several texts in a row. act clingy etc
Damn I fucked up
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Your friend gave you a lob. You don't have to marry the ting my guy, just have fun. For a first date idea take her to a museum-art gallery, some are free and there's always something to talk about. Girls love sophisticated niggas. :mjohreally:
 

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I'm in summer school and this female friend that I've known for a while now from Uni is trying to set me up with one of her homegirls.
problem is that shawty has tats bro. Honestly, I don't even care that much, but there's no way I could bring a ting with tats home to my dukes. She's a nice girl otherwises, she's not a bad girl, but damn. I ain't trying to deal with the stress of that. I can't go to her and be like "I can't date you cause you have tats and my mom and dad wouldn't like that" I'm an adult, that would be so corny if I said that.

So instead, I am literally just acting like the most boring, dryest dude in texts(I have her number), so she doesn't end up liking me, but I can tell it's annoying my female friend because she tried to set up the whole ting but I'm being so dead towards the gyal.

wallahi, this is a messed situation.
Is she somali
:what:
A somali with tats? Nah that person sounds like trouble. I’m not letting going of the stigma surrounding tats sorry, you are a gangster to me.
:mjhaps::camby:
 
maybe some girls don't mind that, but I think most of us western raised somali girls prefer a guy to be a bit detached :ftw9nwa: maybe thats just me. not too much, to the point its rude, but just enough to leave something to the imagination, you know what I mean?
Me too. Texting is overrated
 
I'm in summer school and this female friend that I've known for a while now from Uni is trying to set me up with one of her homegirls.
problem is that shawty has tats bro. Honestly, I don't even care that much, but there's no way I could bring a ting with tats home to my dukes. She's a nice girl otherwises, she's not a bad girl, but damn. I ain't trying to deal with the stress of that. I can't go to her and be like "I can't date you cause you have tats and my mom and dad wouldn't like that" I'm an adult, that would be so corny if I said that.

So instead, I am literally just acting like the most boring, dryest dude in texts(I have her number), so she doesn't end up liking me, but I can tell it's annoying my female friend because she tried to set up the whole ting but I'm being so dead towards the gyal.

wallahi, this is a messed situation.


I would suggest staying away from her, I mean having a tatt doesn't make you a bad person, but all the scrutiny will be too much.

People will assume she was a bad girl, even if she did nothing.
 

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