Fellas who comes first, your mother or wife?

[Gibiin-Udug]

Scenario I

Lets say your mom was the mother in law from hell to your wife, and everyone can see she's nasty to your wife. Would you still side with her? Would you stand up for your wife and the mother of your kids?

Scenario II

Your wife is dramatic, she's nasty to your mother, always talks crap about her, your mother comes complaining to you but you don't see it with your own eyes, your wife acts like an angel when you're with her. What would you?

 

[Tramo]

if my mother is clearly being the aggressor, for sure I'll tell her caadi iska dhig hooyo

but I mean, she'll always get a lot of leeway from me. my wife didn't sacrifice her life for me, or carry me in her womb for 9 months

 

[Adheer Warsame]

Mother because she is less likely to take my money and kids

 

[VixR]

It's best to keep your sweet distance from in laws. It's not necessary to everyday be up in each others' grill lol. Everyone deal with their side of the famz.

 

[AbuScrap]

I'd tell my momma to chill out kindly

 

[Transparent]

Scenario I

Lets say your mom was the mother in law from hell to your wife, and everyone can see she's nasty to your wife. Would you still side with her? Would you stand up for your wife and the mother of your kids?

Scenario II

Your wife is dramatic, she's nasty to your mother, always talks crap about her, your mother comes complaining to you but you don't see it with your own eyes, your wife acts like an angel when you're with her. What would you?

wives are replaceable mothers arent if my wife acts up to my beloved mother ,war nayaahee iridaa kaa baax doofaaryahey

 

[dhegdheer]

My auntie in law is so sweet, I couldn't imagine having evil in laws ngl. I'd start to wonder about the guy i was marrying and his upbringing

 

[Transparent]

My auntie in law is so sweet, I couldn't imagine having evil in laws ngl. I'd start to wonder about the guy i was marrying and his upbringing

if you're looking for a gaal i dont think his upbringing would be great just sayin

 

[Bielsa]

If my 25 year old daughter and 70 year old mother became sworn enemies I'd side with my daughter.

Daughter/Son
Mother
Wife

In that order.

 

[dhegdheer]

if you're looking for a gaal i dont think his upbringing would be great just sayin

Plenty of useless, good for nothing muslims as well it's silly to generalise

 

[Mckenzie]

Ppl can be wrong and make mistakes, support whoever is right only

 

[Transparent]

Plenty of useless, good for nothing muslims as well it's silly to generalise

it's not generalizing if its truuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuue

 

[maestro]

Mother in both scenarios obviously but in the first one I would do my best keep them apart if the conflict is too much

 

[dhegdheer]

If my 25 year old daughter and 70 year old mother became sworn enemies I'd side with my daughter.

Daughter/Son
Mother
Wife

In that order.

You're mum would definitely take issue with your kids irreligious upbringing lmaoo "Naaya dhar gasho, tani wa qaawan"

it's not generalizing if its truuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuue

But how does that explain your manners then?

 

[Bielsa]

You're mum would definitely take issue with your kids irreligious upbringing lmaoo "Naaya dhar gasho, tani wa qaawan"



But how does that explain your manners then?

If my mum starts on my daughters I'd tell her to fall back. I ain't having my mum's dumb religous views be forced upon my girls.

 

[Rooble]

Islam tells me my momma.

 

[agnes]

For the wife the husband comes first. For the husband the mother comes first above everyone else.

 

[Rooble]

For the wife the husband comes first. For the husband the mother comes first above everyone else.

May Allah swt reward you my sister in Islam

 

[agnes]

May Allah swt reward you my sister in Islam

ameen bro and you too

 

[Rooble]

ameen bro and you too

Allahuma Ameen.