The difficulty of dating and marriage within your own ethnic group

[Naa]

That’s not thick. That sounds more like a proportionate woman. More slender if anything.

Thick to me is Jill Scott, Queen Latifah.

Jill Scott and Queen Latifah just big lol.

 

[Desert Flower]

What could you call curvy? There seems to be different definitions of curvy these days.

I’m confused too! I’d say curvy is Beyoncé and Ashanti. With the increase in BBLs the definition has changed so much.

 

[Desert Flower]

Jill Scott and Queen Latifah just big lol.

They use to be considered thick back in the day lool.

 

[Angelina]

For me, someone curvy is someone who is slim but with a small waist, big hips and bum.

I don't think big people shaped like fridges qualify as curvy.

 

[Naa]

They use to be considered thick back in the day lool.

Oh really?! How far back, cuz my parents just see them as big too?

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

That’s not thick. That sounds more like a proportionate woman. More slender if anything.

Thick to me is Jill Scott, Queen Latifah.

They're both enormous lol
That term is a coping mechanism for over-weight women and chubby chasers wallahi.

 

[inflorescence]

My dms are only open to queens shaped like this:

 

[Desert Flower]

They're both enormous lol
That term is a coping mechanism for over-weight women and chubby chasers wallahi.

Hmm, interesting. So how do you feel about the BBL trend? Many women do it because it’s attractive to men.

The media has changed a lot. Early 2000s video models vs. today. Slim and proportionate women were idealized but not as much anymore.

 

[Naa]

My dms are only open to queens shaped like this:

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Kings*

 

[Desert Flower]

Oh really?! How far back, cuz my parents just see them as big too?

Early 2000s. Curvy at that time was J lo and Beyoncé.

 

[Viscount]

My dms are only open to queens shaped like this:

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That's a very fertile person, I wanna see how the back looks. But the face is clearly a -552/10.

 

[Angelina]

Early 2000s. Curvy at that time was J lo and Beyoncé.

Crazy how standards change. I think i've become so used to bbl bodies that I don't even think JLO even has a big bum now. My mind has been distorted lol.

 

[Desert Flower]

Crazy how standards change. I think i've become so used to bbl bodies that I don't even think JLO even has a big bum now. My mind has been distorted lol.

Right? She’s normal weight now but everyone always talked about her butt/curves. Wild.

 

[Angelina]

Right? She’s normal weight now but everyone always talked about her butt/curves. Wild.

I think maybe she had big bum for cadaan people's standards. Ashanti on the other hand, is body goals. She is what I see as the epitomy of natural slim thick.

 

[Desert Flower]

I think maybe she had big bum for cadaan people's standards. Ashanti on the other hand, is body goals. She is what I see as the epitomy of natural slim thick.

J lo’s body’s very attainable: athletic, proportionate yet still feminine. A year (or less) in the gym can get you those results.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Hmm, interesting. So how do you feel about the BBL trend? Many women do it because it’s attractive to men.

The media has changed a lot. Early 2000s video models vs. today. Slim and proportionate women were idealized but not as much anymore.

BBL like the surgery? I personally think it looks fucking grotesque. It doesn't fit, their quads/thighs look too skinny, there's no balance to their physique. It's just a disproportionate cartoonish mess wallahi.

It's essentially the female equivalent of this: