Do crocodile tears work on men?

[Yaraye]

My friend and her husband arguing. She started to cry. He immediately began comforting her and caved into her. I wish i could cry on demand I've tried to cry before but I couldn't shed a single tear no matter how hard I tried!

 

[Ximan iyo Xadeed]

My friend and her husband arguing. She started to cry. He immediately began comforting her and caved into her. I wish i could cry on demand I've tried to cry before but I couldn't shed a single tear no matter how hard I tried!

No it doesn't


we can't all have what we want , otherwise the world would be an easy place to live

 

[Hmohamed54]

Unfortunately

I know from experience.

 

[Yaraye]

No it doesn't


we can't all have what we want , otherwise the world would be an easy place to live

I think it works. The key is to pretend that you're trying not to breakdown. Bat your eyes, quiver your lip, and continuing arguing for a little bit. Suddenly crumple your facial expression and then start to cry as if you cannot stand this any longer. I understand this theory wise, but i can't put it into action! its actually hard to do I admire the women who can commit

 

[Yaraye]

Unfortunately

I know from experience.

tell me more how did your wife do it? what made you give in?

 

[Ozymandias]

I'm ashamed to say it probably would work

 

[Yaraye]

No it doesn't


we can't all have what we want , otherwise the world would be an easy place to live

I also saw a woman do this during work. It was so fascinating to watch!

She got her way just like that!

I was so fascinated seeing the men scramble around her. What profound powers!

I'm the only idiot that tries to argue my way out of things. I've tried to use crying but I just can't produce tears! there was even once where I've accidentally laughed

 

[Yaraye]

I'm ashamed to say it probably would work

Nothing shameful, it just means you got a heart. I've also seen some ruthless men who will not be moved or even say "you're being manipulative." many times the crying is actually real.

 

[Ximan iyo Xadeed]

I also saw a woman do this during work. It was so fascinating to watch!

She got her way just like that!

I was so fascinated seeing the men scramble around her. What profound powers!

I'm the only idiot that tries to argue my way out of things. I've tried to use crying but I just can't produce tears! there was even once where I've accidentally laughed

It depends on the type of man and how far are you goin with this.



And


Then there are men who grew up with female siblings/relatives , those can tell straight away

 

[Madara]

No.

 

[Abu Hesi]

It will work on guys that don't have sisters.

Lkn anaga game kaas waa naqaan.

 

[A Mean Guy]

It might work on me if I am not angry myself.
There are a lot of things that will work on me but I hope no Xalimo discovers the full list or I'm toast.

 

[Yaraye]

It will work on guys that don't have sisters.

Lkn anaga game kaas waa naqaan.

what game?

 

[Hodan from HR]

Nothing shameful, it just means you got a heart. I've also seen some ruthless men who will not be moved or even say "you're being manipulative." many times the crying is actually real.

My ex coworker husband is like this. She tells me he ignores or gives her a look of disgust when she cries. Heartless.

Could never be me..

 

[Yaraye]

It might work on me if I am not angry myself.
There are a lot of things that will work on me but I hope no Xalimo discovers the full list or I'm toast.

Are you the type of person that your xanaag blinds everything else?

They will find out, they always do

 

[Lahaine]

It will work for a while until it doesn't and then he might not be able to know if the tears are fake or real

 

[Yaraye]

My ex coworker husband is like this. She tells me he ignores or gives her a look of disgust when she cries. Heartless.

Could never be me..

Empathy in a man is very important. If he doesn't try to comfort or solve the prob:

The amount of modern men that don't care if their partner is crying or find it disgusting is actually alarming. I starting to think that I might actually include crying as test while talking to a man. I'm gonna cry on a date just to see his reaction. I'm also gonna cry here and there during the beginning of our marriage. Same during my 1st pregnancy and postpartum. Just to see how he deals with the different stages in life.

 

[Hodan from HR]

@Yaraye

Rules Of Crying:

Never use your tears when you want things your way, unless you want to be perceived as a toddler and lose respect from others.

Use your tears when you've done something wrong and are caught red-handed. Make sure you say sorry even if you don't mean it. People become uncomfortable and will console you immediately.

 

[Yaraye]

@Yaraye

Rules Of Crying:

Never use your tears when you want things your way, unless you want to be perceived as a toddler and lose respect from others.

Use your tears when you've done something wrong and are caught red-handed. Make sure you say sorry even if you don't mean it. People become uncomfortable and will console you immediately.

Sounds like you're talking from experience?

 

[A Mean Guy]

Are you the type of person that your xanaag blinds everything else?

Not really. I don't have the yelling, screaming and throwing things around anger but I will separate myself for a bit to calm down. While i'm angry, I don't think I will fall for crocodile tears.

But genuine tears from hormonal mood swings or stress is best not left ignored as it can put your marriage in jeopardy.

They will find out, they always do

If that's the case, I might need to buy this book to level the playing field

Use your tears when you've done something wrong and are caught red-handed. Make sure you say sorry even if you don't mean it. People become uncomfortable and will console you immediately.