Disturbing trend in community I’ve noticed.

[Odkac WRLD]

...why are so many girls I know paying for their weddings?
This doesn’t follow the culture and isn’t right
The man is supposed to pay it is our duty
Is this even halal at all? I get financial hardship but why marry when broke. The women is the backbone of the household, but not the main provider
Why is this happening? I’ve never noticed this until now
Thoughts?

 

[Jaydaan]

well sometimes people want massive weddings and a lot of girls compete and try to outdo each other. Its only fair the woman contributes to it imo. Timo jilac families the girls family pay for the wedding. We should be more like that

 

[Helios]

Bruh what kind of mental gymnastics did you just pull? Since when were weddings an Islamic thing lmao. If my future wife wants one then sure but the nikkah is all thats required tbh.

 

[Basra]

 

[Luciddreamer]

Your simpnimo haven't gone unnoticed sxb

 

[416]

Your simpnimo haven't gone unnoticed sxb

 

[Odkac WRLD]

Your simpnimo haven't gone unnoticed sxb

 

[Odkac WRLD]

well sometimes people want massive weddings and a lot of girls compete and try to outdo each other. Its only fair the woman contributes to it imo. Timo jilac families the girls family pay for the wedding. We should be more like that

Fr they demand an apartment and Honda Civic

 

[Teflon]

 

[babooshke]

even in cadaan families, the bride's family will pay for the wedding if they have the cash

 

[Basra]

The groom who slapped the bride tho


am kinda inlove do i need therapy?

 

[Desert Flower]

Bruh what kind of mental gymnastics did you just pull? Since when were weddings an Islamic thing lmao. If my future wife wants one then sure but the nikkah is all thats required tbh.

Listen to my son y’all. He knows what he’s talking about.

 

[Nostalgia]

If they agree to both pay then then there's no issue, or both families agree to help out.

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[Desert Flower]

If they agree to both pay then then there's no issue, or both families agree to help out.

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[Ras]

Dowry system is the civilized way to go.

Father's wouldn't dump their daughters on losers if they had to pay for it.

We've bypassed the evolutionary selection process and just procreate based on the wealth of the groom's family since it's usually not the guy paying for it back in the days.


After a couple centuries of this don't be surprised to end up with these types of offsprings: