DID you know children are more likely to be harmed by their biological mother than father?

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No one wants to talk about it. Society is totally in denial that women aren’t always victims.

We have all been conditioned to believe the majority of people who commit abuse are men — but it’s not true.








Statistics show a different story from the one we are accustomed to


Data from Child Protective Services in the US, mirrors the pattern around the world. Of children who become victims of maltreatment, the huge majority of perpetrators of the crimes are the biological parents (not adopted or foster parents, as you might think).

The Child Family Community Australia reports, “A British retrospective prevalence study of 2669 young adults aged 18-24 (May-Chahal & Cawson, 2005) found that mothers were more likely than fathers to be responsible for physical abuse 49 per cent of incidents compared to 40 per cent).”

Other sites that are trying to raise awareness in this area will bombard you with statistics. Breaking the silence, for instance, says 71 per cent of children killed by one parent are killed by their mothers, 60 per cent of those victims are boys.



http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/pa...s/news-story/629b48b93abd22be2b63f1344c0c5de6
 

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DID you know children are more likely to be harmed by their biological mother than father? Neither did I until very recently. But why am I surprised — and why will you be shocked? Because we don’t talk about it.

No one wants to talk about it. Society is totally in denial that women aren’t always victims.

We have all been conditioned to believe the majority of people who commit abuse are men — but it’s not true.


http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/pa...s/news-story/629b48b93abd22be2b63f1344c0c5de6
Did the study take into account that mothers tend to be the primary caretakers of children?? Because, if women are the ones looking after children the majority of the time...it'd make sense that they'd make up a higher percentage of abusers, in comparison to fathers, as well.

It's like conducting a vehicle safety study, by gender, in Saudi Arabia..and concluding, "men are the worst drivers because they've caused more road accidents than women".
 

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Did the study take into account that mothers tend to be the primary caretakers of children?? Because, if women are the ones looking after children the majority of the time...it'd make sense that they'd make up a higher percentage of abusers, in comparison to fathers, as well.

It's like conducting a vehicle safety study, by gender, in Saudi Arabia..and concluding, "men are the worst drivers because they've caused more road accidents than women".
So you mean to tell me it’s okay for men to be violent at work and abuse their co workers since they spend most of their time at work?
 

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So you mean to tell me it’s okay for men to be violent at work and abuse their co workers since they spend most of their time at work?
No, I'm saying the findings can't conclude that the problem is one of gender...if both men and women aren't equally represented in child rearing (hence, why I asked you that question in the first place).

A place of employment is more likely to have strict rules and oversight, which would prevent workplace violence-- but if any workplace violence was to happen in a place that's majority male...yes, both the perpetrator (and victim) would most likely be male.

I'm not justifying abusive behavior of any kind, I'm only explaining why the results might appear that way.
 
No one wants to talk about it. Society is totally in denial that women aren’t always victims.

We have all been conditioned to believe the majority of people who commit abuse are men — but it’s not true.








Statistics show a different story from the one we are accustomed to


Data from Child Protective Services in the US, mirrors the pattern around the world. Of children who become victims of maltreatment, the huge majority of perpetrators of the crimes are the biological parents (not adopted or foster parents, as you might think).

The Child Family Community Australia reports, “A British retrospective prevalence study of 2669 young adults aged 18-24 (May-Chahal & Cawson, 2005) found that mothers were more likely than fathers to be responsible for physical abuse 49 per cent of incidents compared to 40 per cent).”

Other sites that are trying to raise awareness in this area will bombard you with statistics. Breaking the silence, for instance, says 71 per cent of children killed by one parent are killed by their mothers, 60 per cent of those victims are boys.



http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/pa...s/news-story/629b48b93abd22be2b63f1344c0c5de6



Interesting... theres this perception that we can't trust kids with their fathers but there's plenty cases out of there of people who grew up with unstable moms. I do wonder though if these moms single handily physically abused their kids or was there a stepfather or boyfriend in the picture. One thing I have noticed is many women are weak and will turn a blind eye or participate in the abuse of their children :vo3yidw:
 

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No, I'm saying the findings can't conclude that the problem is one of gender...if both men and women aren't equally represented in child rearing (hence, why I asked you that question in the first place).

A place of employment is more likely to have strict rules and oversight, which would prevent workplace violence-- but if any workplace violence was to happen in a place that's majority male...yes, both the perpetrator (and victim) would most likely be male.

I'm not justifying abusive behavior of any kind, I'm only explaining why the results might appear that way.
Why are you making excuses for mothers who abuse their kids? Can you join me in condemning mothers who abuse their kids?
 

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Interesting... theres this perception that we can't trust kids with their fathers but there's plenty cases out of there of people who grew up with unstable moms. I do wonder though if these moms single handily physically abused their kids or was there a stepfather or boyfriend in the picture. One thing I have noticed is many women are weak and will turn a blind eye or participate in the abuse of their children :vo3yidw:
Are you saying women are incapable of abusing their own children?
 

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The excuses these females make to justify a mothers abuse of her own children merely cause they have a vagina too kkk
 

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Why are you making excuses for mothers who abuse their kids? Can you join me in condemning mothers who abuse their kids?
Huh?? Did you miss the last sentence in my last quote...?:ayaanswag::ayaanswag:
I'm not justifying abusive behavior of any kind, I'm only explaining why the results might appear that way.

I'm not making any excuses whatsoever. What else would you like to hear? YES, I WHOLEHEARTEDLY JOIN YOU IN CONDEMNING MOTHERS WHO ABUSE THEIR KIDS. :bell:
 

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Huh?? Did you miss the last sentence in my last quote...?:ayaanswag::ayaanswag:


I'm not making any excuses whatsoever. What else would you like to hear? YES, I WHOLEHEARTEDLY JOIN YOU IN CONDEMNING MOTHERS WHO ABUSE THEIR KIDS. :bell:
So what you’re saying is women are just as abusive as men? If a father spent more time with their kids they would be just as abusive as the mother?
 
Are you saying women are incapable of abusing their own children?

I did not say that !!!
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Ever heard of munchausen syndrome? That alone tells me mothers are capable of some horrific stuff but I also agree with what @TooMacaan said , children are more likely to be with their mothers versus their fathers thus leads to the stats that mothers abuse their kids more.

Look at it this way police officers are more likely to be patrolling black neighbourhoods thus more black Males are arrested. Doesn't mean white people commit less crime !

At the end of the day abuse is not a one gendered thing and both parents can be quite dangerous.
 

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So what you’re saying is women are just as abusive as men? If a father spent more time with their kids they would be just as abusive as the mother?
According to your own ideological beliefs, if a father spent more time with their kids...they'd probably be even waaay more abusive than women.

I can't make any meaningful predictions though. My best guess is 'at least just as much', but I'd have to understand why those women even abused their children in the first place. Was it because they were evil individuals? Was it mental illness? Was it drugs? I need more info. The study would've been better off researching the why, so it could map out a plan of action to prevent future abuses...rather than making it a gender battle.

Anyways, your question isn't something that could be studied atm, since it doesn't reflect our reality. Not enough house husbands out there.
 
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