That's just my opinion-- I did say that if it's their money, it's their business after all. Personally, I think it's a bad decision simply bc there are more valuable things to spend money on [esp. considering that: 1) the main point of a wedding is vows, not the ceremony...& 2) the cost/benefit doesn't measure up-- I get the whole 'memories' argument, but a helicopter seems extra...are you rly doing it for yourselves? or for attention?].Now i wouldn't spend that much money even if I could afford it becouse of personal choice, but how is that a bad decision. Spending your money on things you like is somehow considered a "bad decision" now.