Can You Turn A *** Into A Housewife?

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

Let's be real Most Muslims live around Muslims and in the context of somali girls they have been culturally at the very least been brought up not to be promiscuous. So even if they know nothing about the religion. They were still fully aware of the consequences of there actions and that it ain't exactly something they would do openly unless they grew up under messed up and unique conditions.

I have known many non-Muslim ladies in the West far more modest, if moral and ethical than some Muslims I have encountered in Muslim nations in the Gulf, NA, and Asia to name a few, of course the numbers are skewed, but the point stands that current crop of Muslims are not quite what their predecessors once were; case in point, the filthiest lass, in deed & mind, I have ever come across was from Kuwait.

Adjunct:
An old mate was to marry a lass from Maghreb, both being of the same extraction, (his being brought up in London, with her being from France), and a week before the wedding, his future MIL asked him 'if he truly knew of her, and what she had done for a living, in the past', bearing in mind, the lady sported niqab and the works --- to cut a lengthy story short, it turns out she was an enscort in France. He flipped, calling off the wedding. Now, let us call him 'I', he was a rogue of the worse form, but a decent lad; do you think he should have called off the wedding?

Unto you.

 

[astr0veiled]

this deserves to be put in qashiin.

 

[Odious Delirium]

I have known many non-Muslim ladies in the West far more modest, if moral and ethical than some Muslims I have encountered in Muslim nations in the Gulf, NA, and Asia to name a few, of course the numbers are skewed, but the point stands that current crop of Muslims are not quite what their predecessors once were; case in point, the filthiest lass, in deed & mind, I have ever come across was from Kuwait.

It doesn't matter if people aren't like those in the past I personally said I wouldn't marry a revert because I would prefer to marry a somali who are predominantly born Muslims. And its worse if your a Muslim with a past then a revert since a reverts past is guaranteed to be wiped away while with a muslim it up to Allah to decide. Anyways I don't really disagree I did say born Muslims who engage in degeneracy are worse but I don't intend to get with one so it doesn't matter.

Adjunct:
An old mate was to marry a lass from Maghreb, both being of the same extraction, (his being brought up in London, with her being from France), and a week before the wedding, his future MIL asked him 'if he truly knew of her, and what she had done for a living, in the past', bearing in mind, the lady sported niqab and the works --- to cut a lengthy story short, it turns out she was an enscort in France. He flipped, calling off the wedding. Now, let us call him 'I', he was a rogue of the worse form, but a decent lad; do you think he should have called off the wedding?

Unto you.

I think he's a hypocrite and was getting what he deserved but it up to him to decide at the end of the day and he made his choice. The only reason I don't consider people with a degenerate past is because I don't have one if I did I wouldn't be a hypocrite about it and expect someone chaste when I'm not chaste myself no matter how much I reform myself. But yeah an escort is to far unless I have an equally promiscuous past myself

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

this deserves to be put in qashiin.

It is a good topical conversation, which speaks to the imperfect notion of our being wholesome, esp. for us lads, who wish to explore, and experiment, but with a different set of expectations where the lasses are concerned; besides, what one does in one's youth does not negate one's value. Or does it?

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

It doesn't matter if people aren't like those in the past I personally said I wouldn't marry a revert because I would prefer to marry a somali who are predominantly born Muslims. And its worse if your a Muslim with a past then a revert since a reverts past is guaranteed to be wiped away while with a muslim it up to Allah to decide. Anyways I don't really disagree I did say born Muslims who engage in degeneracy are worse but I don't intend to get with one so it doesn't matter.


I think he's a hypocrite and was getting what he deserved but it up to him to decide at the end of the day and he made his choice. The only reason I don't consider people with a degenerate past is because I don't have one if I did I wouldn't be a hypocrite about it and expect someone chaste when I'm not chaste myself no matter how much I reform myself. But yeah an escort is to far unless I have an equally promiscuous past myself

All valid points; you sound an idealist, which is admirable, and may you remain so forever.

Addendum:
Indeed a toerag, he was for thinking so. They ended up married, and are in good standing. Some of us had to abuse him from his manufactured, if misplaced outrage, and bring him down to planet earth reflecting upon his youthful peccadillos, and adult transgressions. According to some, she is the best thing that ever happened to 'I'.

 

[Odious Delirium]

All valid points; you sound an idealist, which is admirable, and may you remain so forever.

Addendum:
Indeed a toerag, he wasfor thinking so. They ended up married, and are in good standing. Some of us had to abuse him from his manufactured, if misplaced outrage, and bring him down to planet earth reflecting upon his youthful peccadillos, and adult transgressions. According to some, she is the best thing that ever happened to 'I'.

Sounds like his mother in law tried to sabotage her daughter and he should have kept that info to himself and swallowed his pride since he isn't exactly clean himself. Looks like they are both reformed individuals mashallah and the ayaah with regards to this rings true.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

Sounds like his mother in law tried to sabotage her daughter and he should have kept that info to himself and swallowed his pride since he isn't exactly clean himself. Looks like they are both reformed individuals mashallah and the ayaah with regards to this rings true.

I actually admire the MIL, for in truth, she wanted a marriage built upon honest foundation, and was of the older generation, and of family, like most of our elders (the good ones), which viewed transgressions with disdain, if unforgivable. I think without her intervention, the marraige would have faltered , with 'I' thinking his to-be wife engaged in dishonest dealings, depriving him of the decision to choose for himself. Finding out post marraige, I think would have been a bigger blow to his ego than anything else.

 

[Odious Delirium]

I actually admire the MIL, for in truth, she wanted a marriage built upon honest foundation, and was of the older generation, and of family, like most of our elders (the good ones), which viewed transgressions with disdain, if unforgivable. I think without her intervention, the marraige would have faltered , with 'I' thinking his to-be wife engaged in dishonest dealings, depriving him of the decision to choose for himself. Finding out post marraige, I think would have been a bigger blow to his ego than anything else.

I'm confused on why the daughter didn't tell him herself in the first place and since there now married I guess the intention of the mother in law we're in the right place but how didn't he find out way before deciding to marry her? Did it simply not come up or did she actively lie/hide it. If that's the case I wouldn't have went through with it based of the fact that she lied

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

I'm confused on why the daughter didn't tell him herself in the first place and since there now married I guess the intention of the mother in law we're in the right place but how didn't he find out way before deciding to marry her? Did it simply not come up or did she actively lie/hide it. If that's the case I wouldn't have went through with it based of the fact that she lied

Oh I just gave a synopsis. The bride to-be eventually came clean, after the future MIL planted the idea in the groom's head, pressing him to speak with his bride to-be. MIL asked him if he knew what she did in France, and realised he did not, ergo her pressing him to have a heart-to-heart conversation prior to the wedding.

I do not think the bride to-be was plannijg to divulge; would you?

 

[TheManWhoIsAlive]

You probably could, but I wouldn't take on the task my guy. Just saying.

 

[Odious Delirium]

Oh I just gave a synopsis. The bride to-be eventually came clean, after the future MIL planted the idea in the groom's head, pressing him to speak with his bride to-be. MIL asked him if he knew what she did in France, and realised he did not, ergo her pressing him to have a heart-to-heart conversation prior to the wedding.

I do not think the bride to-be was plannijg to divulge; would you?

Oh that's fine then since he never asked but that's also weird that he didn't do a background check or have a discussion prior to this that would have lead to that convo. What kind of talking stage did they have in the first place for something so important to get revealed at such a critical time. Do people just decide to marry randomly now adays or they didn't have a long talking stage?

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

Oh that's fine then since he never asked but that's also weird that he didn't do a background check or have a discussion prior to this that would have lead to that convo. What kind of talking stage did they have in the first place for something so important to get revealed at such a critical time. Do people just decide to marry randomly now adays or they didn't have a long talking stage?

Is running a background check for a potential wife a thing? I heard of health check? How does one even go about that for a foreign born?

 

[astr0veiled]

It is a good topical conversation, which speaks to the imperfect notion of our being wholesome, esp. for us lads, who wish to explore, and experiment, but with a different set of expectations where the lasses are concerned; besides, what one does in one's youth does not negate one's value. Or does it?

the idea that men can hoe around for their younger years and then just magically wake up and convince themselves they deserve a chaste, pure, and good partner is so laughable. the cognitive dissonance.. for men to think they can sleep around and have multiple pre-marital relations yet maintain expectations over women because they cannot keep their meat inside…truly fascinating.

these same men can not perform to the expectations they hold over women because they are simply selfish creatures who only understand self-preservation & their needs above all else. & yes, what one does in their youth does negate their value. men wouldn’t accept that for themselves, why should women? pure men are for pure women and pure women for pure men.

Postscript:
Men who think this way are truly a deranged, entitled bunch.

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[Odious Delirium]

Is running a background check for a potential wife a thing? I heard of health check? How does one even go about that for a foreign born?

No idea but they must have been connected some how and there from the same community. You just got to ask around I guess or check there soicals or ask there family and friends about them. Technically the MIL helped him out in that regard but yeah it's a lot harder if there foreign born and you don't know anyone around them or in that country in the first place. You just got to rely on and trust what your partner tells you I guess.

 

[Nak-Muay-Femeu]

God, I'm sick to the back teeth of these manosphere, "high value male" grifter fággots
c*nt needs to get a real job and stop fleecing perma-virgin zoomers.