I agree with you, it's not sensible to paint a broad brush with whole groups of people, that's when you transform into a bigot. Regarding xalimos, I think that a lot of somali men need to get this idea out of our heads that we own somali women, they are individuals of their own and they make their own decisions in life. We have no place to criticise them if we are not directly involved with them. We need to spread more positivity frWhy are you getting all mad and defensive? I don't think you was joking. You know there are millions of Somali women, some are good and some are obviously bad just like any other race of women, but here you're generalizing.. I also call them out on it when some women generelize Somali men, like on that thread where @malab#2 was running around fumming at her mouth over some tiktok xalimo who was supposedly beaten by her brother.

