Both men and Women don't know what they realy want in a partner

[Manafesto]

Girls get taught from day one to find someone to take care of them and they neglect to do anything to make themselves an independent woman. Then, when they realize that they've used their physical appeal to get to where they are, they get left for someone prettier and younger.

Men use good looks too just the same and end up trampling all over young girls who already have a head full of bullshit (thanks to Hollywood, MTV, and modern pop/rap culture for that) and throwing them aside. This creates a jaded young woman.

Women get done wrong by one guy and then seem to think that all men are the same way, and smother them with distrust and suspicion.

Men with no backbone end up with women who bully them around and destroy their spirit, turning them into their pet dancing monkey. Why? Dude has no spine or confidence and fails to realize that he can go and get anything he wants.

Girls get their minds filled with shit about what makes a "wonderful guy"... this usually means "nice car/truck", "Parents with money", "good looks/nice body", and "buys shit for me".

I've asked several girls what they love about their boyfriend/husband, and it usually involves things above (paraphrased to "he takes care of me" and "he's beautiful") and when they have to go further, they say, "we like the same stuff".... asked "like what?", and you get the response "movies and music". Pretty soon we're just going to be animals grunting at a potential mate and pointing to a mattress.

On the flipside, there are guys who have no idea what sort of woman they are with. They like her because she's attractive, good at fucking, and he doesn't want that to fall into enemy hands.

I've met women who go out to a bar, meet a guy, give him pμssy on the first night they meet, and then she wonders why she can't find a decent guy. QUIT THROWING YOUR MOST PRECIOUS LEVERAGE OUT LIKE IT'S A SAMPLE AT SAM'S CLUB.

I meet guys who are so down on themselves because this Halimo left him for some guy, then they blame themselves and think they are inferior. Ever stopped for a second and realized that some dude came and took a tramp off your hands, maybe even taught you a lesson? Maybe you should realize that now you're free? Dear God, it's easy... but patience is the key.

I've met people of both genders who are "lonely" and use that as a reason to get into a relationship. Dear GOD this is retarded.This is what you have "friends" for.

Getting into a relationship because you are lonely is like burning down your house because it has termites.

In short, both genders are responsible.

But my favorite:

GIRL: "Men think with their dicks! I can't believe I had no idea he was cheating on me for 4 months with a girl right down the road"

Men- thinking with our dicks since the dawn of time, and still outsmarting women
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[Basra]

 

[Xaruun]

Where do you get this stuff from?

 

[trucel]

dn read

 

[Manafesto]

Where do you get this stuff from?

From my brain, enjoy the wisdom of your elders kid bef8re inc§els like you become a one

 

[stophatingtho]

I just want her to be thick man am I asking to much

 

[Siddhartha]

I just want no teeth during

 

[Basra]

I just want no teeth during

 

[Basra]

From the basic point of view. A girl wants a confident strong and financial able boy.


But if u lack that, then the man needs to find a specific girl who is looking for specific you. For example my older brother picked a fob wife who is not his level. He is more good looking, more educated, and could have done better. But now they are married 20 plus year-- it was a strategic match. She was youthful, poor, and not good looking, but now she is a great mother and a wife. She looks up to my brother greatly & always asks herself- Why did u pick me? Which is love guaranteed if you ask me. If i could analyzed why my brother picked her, i would say, he wanted to guarantee a specific result. His wife not leaving him. She is dependent on him. Now that she is older, she whispers to us, why cant your brother do this like other men or that or this-- too late. She is trapped . But that doesn't mean the trap is not what she needed. Or subconsciously welcomed. They look happy. The kids are Mashalaah in stable and in a loving home.

 

[KobeBryant]

From the basic point of view. A girl wants a confident strong and financial able boy.


But if u lack that, then the man needs to find a specific girl who is looking for specific you. For example my older brother picked a fob wife who is not his level. He is more good looking, more educated, and could have done better. But now they are married 20 plus year-- it was a strategic match. She was youthful, poor, and not good looking, but now she is a great mother and a wife. She looks up to my brother greatly & always asks herself- Why did u pick me? Which is love guaranteed if you ask me. If i could analyzed why my brother picked her, i would say, he wanted to guarantee a specific result. His wife not leaving him. She is dependent on him. Now that she is older, she whispers to us, why cant your brother do this like other men or that or this-- too late. She is trapped . But that doesn't mean the trap is not what she needed. Or subconsciously welcomed. They look happy. The kids are Mashalaah in stable and in a loving home.

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[Guled111]

From the basic point of view. A girl wants a confident strong and financial able boy.


But if u lack that, then the man needs to find a specific girl who is looking for specific you. For example my older brother picked a fob wife who is not his level. He is more good looking, more educated, and could have done better. But now they are married 20 plus year-- it was a strategic match. She was youthful, poor, and not good looking, but now she is a great mother and a wife. She looks up to my brother greatly & always asks herself- Why did u pick me? Which is love guaranteed if you ask me. If i could analyzed why my brother picked her, i would say, he wanted to guarantee a specific result. His wife not leaving him. She is dependent on him. Now that she is older, she whispers to us, why cant your brother do this like other men or that or this-- too late. She is trapped . But that doesn't mean the trap is not what she needed. Or subconsciously welcomed. They look happy. The kids are Mashalaah in stable and in a loving home.

What she meant by, why he can't do this and that?

 

[Basra]

What she meant by, why he can't do this and that?

She wants him to earn more money. But my brother is a hands on dad. He works six months of the year and the other six he just chills and gets more and more education. But he is very involved in the kids daily life. Drops them at school, takes them to museums, parks, and his wife cooks and takes care of the home. He is a nomad at heart. Doesn't look like someone with a college degree. You will find him in the nearest cafe having qabil argument with odeys. I guess she wants him to be ambitious but she has no ideas the blessing she has which is a very involved dad

 

[Xaruun]

She wants him to earn more money. But my brother is a hands on dad. He works six months of the year and the other six he just chills and gets more and more education. But he is very involved in the kids daily life. Drops them at school, takes them to museums, parks, and his wife cooks and takes care of the home. He is a nomad at heart. Doesn't look like someone with a college degree. You will find him in the nearest cafe having qabil argument with odeys. I guess she wants him to be ambitious but she has no ideas the blessing she has which is a very involved dad

If he worked harder then she’d probably complain about him being an uninvolved dad

 

[Basra]

If he worked harder then she’d probably complain about him being an uninvolved dad

exactly! There is no winning with people! The best u can get at happiness is take care of the necessities/essentials! Love. Involvement. Money come and goes. Never capitulate yourself for superficial stuff

 

[Abba Sadacha]

Islam has the answers for everything. The man should be the provider, the woman should take care of the home and the kids, however, there's nothing wrong with her making her own money, having her own career, ambitions, etc, but she should know that the kids and home are more important. Also... the man should share in the house work, which is the Sunnah.