Being brutally honest with Somali Parents

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  1. IftiinOfLife

    IftiinOfLife Raw Hard Truth

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    I was wondering if anyone else has the same open lines of communications with their parents.
    I encourage it because it removes hostility and negative feelings.

    Usually when my mom and I talk about real shit, it's like two corporations coming together and discussing high level financial moves. We plan a day and time, I get her some coffee, and we lay it all out on the table.

    She wanted me to get some high level degree and peruse a more academic route, instead of the business route I'm taking, but I told her, hoyo I did the math and I did the research, that kind of shit is not needed, I don't wanna pay some cadaan instution for something I don't need. I know what I am doing, By the time I'm 30, (on the path I am now) I'm gonna have at least 300k in the bank, savings, and In 2 years or LESS, I will buy us a brand new family home, all cash, and you can retire then too, I will fund your retirement in Africa and watch your kids for you, that's a good fucking deal. She agreed and went :dwill: damn ok.

    I also told her, Hoyo macaan, you know where I am all hours of the day, I am not missing in action like these other somali girls. I am a good child, you got lucky :pachah1:.

    Oh and she wanted to marry some dude over seas, I vetoed that and said Im good fam :drakekidding:

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  4. IftiinOfLife

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    Who is that?
     
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    Inshallah.....you forgot to say that. You need to tell us your business so we can prosper as well. Sharing is caring
     
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  6. IftiinOfLife

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    Why is your name Jaydaan, my religion forbids me of associating/assisting with people linked with the devil
     
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  7. CabMax

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    I like this girl attitude keeda. Abaayo horey u soco.
     
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  8. Jaydaan

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    Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. Shaydaan should be the closest to you so you know what he’s up to all the time
     
  9. CabMax

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    @IftiinOfLife haven't seen you lately around here. Me thinks u were on some business venture that required focus. Did u make a killing?
     
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  10. IftiinOfLife

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    The Holy Koran tells me, Shaitan/Shaydaan made an open proclamation against the children of Adam, and will try his damn hardest to make sure we burn in hell with him.

    Say no to Shaytan :nahgirl:
     
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  11. IftiinOfLife

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    My confidence got me this far in life, thanks for noticing.
    I spent time running around with a friend checking out a new market. I try to do Halal business that doesn't promote negativity like pubs/bars, gambling, or even tobacco/vaping/ecigs, which is tough cause that last market is fucking booming.

    Just now getting into the housing market. I will report my findings soon.

    There are 24 hours in a day, I keep 5-6 hours reserved just for sleeping

    8 hours making at least 30 dollars an hour/chasing money, so average to what a normal educated person makes in a day,

    1 Hour of exercise

    2-3 Hour of bullshit/unwind time/shukaansi?/social times

    1 hour at LEAST learning something new.

    Prayer/loving god/food/family time in between.

    5 days dedicated to work ( above what i described is a typical work day), 2 days free dedicated to family and learning new ideas/business ventures/networking and other shit I can't discuss here :pachah1:.
     
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    Narcissist alert!
     
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  13. IftiinOfLife

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    Also, by talking with other Somalis, I noticed 99.9% LIE to their parents, even about the littlest things, and it breaks my heart they can't be honest with them.
     
  14. IftiinOfLife

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    Nah I'm a Psychopathic Empath
     
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    Reading this at 30 and broke makes me want to jump off a bridge lol dint mind me you go girl! Beat of luck
     
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    From what I’ve noticed, people who make real money tend to keep quiet about it. It’s good you’re providing for your family but I’d keep lowkey about it if I was you.
     
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  17. CabMax

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    Future successful woman in the making.

    :salute:
     
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  18. IftiinOfLife

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    You mean xasid people who don’t teach their community how to play the game and come out of poverty, if I’m winning ... we winning.
     
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  19. IftiinOfLife

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    Don’t ever think that way , there’s always ways to make money , and all of our lives are different so we shouldn’t compare and contrast. Find a way to level up in your chosen field by taking the biggest shortcut.
     
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    Aww thank you, i am trying my best in the mean time i find it inspiring when anyone else is winning at life.
     
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