Arranged marriages in 2017.

[Gibiin-Udug]

I didn't know arranged marriages happened in the Somali community in 2017.
I just found out an associate of mine recently got married to a guy in Malaysia through arranged marriage,


She's going to teach him everything,
How to drive
How to speak English
How to wear deodorant
How to watch Netflix

 

[Aaegal]

Poor girl.

 

[GeKo]

Malaysia isn't as bad as your saying. It has all those things and many know
english

 

[TekNiKo]

Arranged marriages usually have a higher success rate than other types of marriages

 

[government]

I didn't know arranged marriages happened in the Somali community in 2017.
I just found out an associate of mine recently got married to a guy in Malaysia through arranged marriage,


She's going to teach him everything,
How to drive
How to speak English
How to wear deodorant
How to watch Netflix

Lol what are you talking about. You're making like the people from Malaysia are some kind of cave men

 

[Aaegal]

Lol what areyou talking about. You're making like the people from Malaysia are some kind of cave men

He could be living in some village for all you know.

 

[government]

He could be living in some village for all you know.

Im assuming that the person she will marry is a somali if that's the case then why will he live in a village in malyasia

 

[Aaegal]

Im assuming that the person she will marry is a somali if that's the case then why will he live in a village in malyasia

I assumed she was getting married to a Malaysian man. Are there a lot of Somali people living in that country?

 

[government]

I assumed she was getting married to a Malaysian man. Are there a lot of Somali people living in that country?

There are some. I believe that you could go to Malaysia visa free if you have a somali passport

 

[Khalid Hussein]

My dad is against the idea of arranged marriages.

 

[Khalid Hussein]

I didn't know arranged marriages happened in the Somali community in 2017.
I just found out an associate of mine recently got married to a guy in Malaysia through arranged marriage,


She's going to teach him everything,
How to drive
How to speak English
How to wear deodorant
How to watch Netflix

Malayisa is not bad i went there after my graduation in 2005. It is one of the best places i have ever been, my goal is to go to hajj soon inshallah

 

[Steamdevolopment]

I didn't know arranged marriages happened in the Somali community in 2017.
I just found out an associate of mine recently got married to a guy in Malaysia through arranged marriage,


She's going to teach him everything,
How to drive
How to speak English
How to wear deodorant
How to watch Netflix

That's not marriage, that is a second parent.

 

[SecretAgent]

Arranged marriages usually have a higher success rate than other types of marriages

big risk how do you know they won't use you for papers.

 

[waraabe]

It's for the lower classes

 

[TekNiKo]

big risk how do you know they won't use you for papers.

Your parents know best!!

 

[Ubax45_]

As long as it's arranged and not forced, I don't see a problem.

 

[waraabe]

As long as it's arranged and not forced, I don't see a problem.

You have to have some big issues if you need others to find you a spouse

 

[Dino]

You have to have some big issues if you need others to find you a spouse

Not really.

Finding spouses through family recommendations more often than not is a viable option. At least families can do back ground checks on them.

 

[ItzDoctorZ]

I didn't know arranged marriages happened in the Somali community in 2017.
I just found out an associate of mine recently got married to a guy in Malaysia through arranged marriage,


She's going to teach him everything,
How to drive
How to speak English
How to wear deodorant
How to watch Netflix

Believe it or not, Malaysia is a developed country

 

[ItzDoctorZ]

Btw, honest question since i'm only 18, how else do people get married anyways? I thought dating was haram?