Arrange Marriage Vs DIY Marriage?

[mrlog]

eedo?

when did i become an eedo?

Huuno xaal qaado.
From now on u will be referred to as a Qalanjo qoor dheer.

 

[arawelo 2.0]

Nicca, there are like a trillion women on this planet. You mean to tell me by shear chance you'll find the one?

I get what you're saying about business transaction. But isn't marriage a business transaction anyway? I've seen far too many love/passion marriages either consume the family like a fire or cool into loveless marriage.

love is a choice but it should be yours not your parents. i'd rather meet a guy on my own accord, get to know him and choose whether i want to love him or not than marry a stranger and hope everything works out.

 

[arawelo 2.0]

Huuno xaal qaado.
From now on u will be referred to as a Qalanjo qoor dheer.

 

[Deactivated]

This website has a “Jinni Marriage”.

 

[agnes]

Takin ur MIL on the honeymoon is sum next shit.
How does she expect the couple to get intimate and enjoy they selves.
Ma referee bey ismooday?
Waa yaaab


Anigu insha'allah after the wedding night the bedroom waxaa la is'odhan ma tornado baa ka tilaacday.
From da walls to da floor.
Xitaa the curtains will be torn down.
Let the MIL figure out wat happened

She's a nosy woman.

lol@referee

You can't mess with the curtains it will leave you exposed to the public.

 

[anonimo]

Doesn't matter how you meet them, be it a family introduction or a chance encounter. What matters is if you emotionally and intellectually bond with a potential spouse. It also helps if you have a similar moral compass. Lastly, Dabeecad is of the utmost importance.

 

[VixR]

I don't believe in "the one"...

I just think the foundation of the arranged relationship is odd, and in the future you can't even be certain if your relationship is authentic or if your significant other is dragging themselves through it.

I don't know how grown ppl believe in "the one".

There's a spectrum of compatibility, and that's it.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Only losers would go for arranged marriages. The ones who can't get a girl.

 

[Inquisitive_]

To be honest I've met with a couple girls my parents introduced as prospective wives (it was important to my parents so I couldn't say no).

Both times it was awkward, and even if there was a chance of romance, it felt too much like a transaction.

If I'm going to get married I want at least the feeling that it's destined to happen.

This kind of setting forces you to ask the real important questions that really matter and those that benefit you down the line, rather then some empty wishy washy shukansi bull crap that you will glean nothing from.

The man who is not ready for this, is the type that doesn't know what he wants, the one that doesn't know what he wants if pushed towards marriage is a ticking time bomb ready to explode.

 

[World]

For my children, they will get an arranged marriage. But personally, I will look for my own wife.

 

[AbdiJew]

Only the socially awkward (introverts), the criminals, the oyin and the South Asians go for arranged marriages in the West.

 

[mrcool]

I have great advice do opposite of all Somali norms (except religion) and you will turn out fine

 

[NA9]

I have great advice do opposite of all Somali norms (except religion) and you will turn out fine

Everytime I need advice, I ask a Somali, so I can do the exact opposite of what they advise. Works everytime

 

[Gambar]

Nicca, there are like a trillion women on this planet. You mean to tell me by shear chance you'll find the one?

I get what you're saying about business transaction. But isn't marriage a business transaction anyway? I've seen far too many love/passion marriages either consume the family like a fire or cool into loveless marriage.

 

[Gambar]

For my children, they will get an arranged marriage. But personally, I will look for my own wife.

 

[World]

What’s so funny?

 

[Gambar]

What’s so funny?

Caqliloow aa tahay, your kids will have arranged marriages but you won’t.

 

[World]

Caqliloow aa tahay, your kids will have arranged marriages but you won’t.

My parents and I are too different due to cultural shock. But I will know what my children want since we'll be raised in similar environments and I'll be very close with them.

 

[Mercury]

Some arranged marriages are messed up like the family that got a mentally ill son and the mom goes to the baadiye to find a miskeen girl that can change her son

 

[Edo Nene]

Some arranged marriages are messed up like the family that got a mentally ill son and the mom goes to the baadiye to find a miskeen girl that can change her son

I hate mothers who do that.