I went to a local grocery, at the check counter I see these two adorable older Somali men struggling with grocery. One was tall, with a prominent long nose, with beard dyed with Xiina. He wore a dhuksi cab on. The other was shorter with cispy silver hair, also wearing a dhuksi cap, hair so solf its like White people silver white silky hair. I eyed their groceries, they shopped for buur/flour, eggs, tea etc etc At the time of paying money they were chipping with dollars here and there together! Adorable yes but weird!
This is an epidemic. All public houses or low income houses have older somali men living together. Single older women living by themselves. At least the older men can get along, these single older women living by themselves, which kinda shows women out of bi!chyness cannot get along with other women, which is why my case is ---opposite live together. Older man with older woman.
Obviously they live together, which is smart I agree, saves a lot of bills. but my question is, why do somali men feel comfortable to be by themselves???? I see young somali boys and men hanging around together. I see middle aged men hanging out together, dining in fine dine. I see single older women living in public housing by themselves. One Ogaden older woman, in her mid 50s, told my divorced cousin who is in his late 30s & her neighbor, "when I get horny, I pour warm hot water in me" This she said when he gave her a ride somewhere. She took opportunity right away in that single ride to shukaansi my cousin. He called us shocked and traumatized.
My question is:: Why dont old somali men marry old single somali women and keep each other company??? Its not about having babies obviously, because I dont see the older men going to marry a young one. (some do) In the west its a mater of sense. Its very odd two grown old men cooking angeero/lo and laxox together by two adorable gay couple. Its very unbecoming.
Am I crazy to thing that????
This is an epidemic. All public houses or low income houses have older somali men living together. Single older women living by themselves. At least the older men can get along, these single older women living by themselves, which kinda shows women out of bi!chyness cannot get along with other women, which is why my case is ---opposite live together. Older man with older woman.
Obviously they live together, which is smart I agree, saves a lot of bills. but my question is, why do somali men feel comfortable to be by themselves???? I see young somali boys and men hanging around together. I see middle aged men hanging out together, dining in fine dine. I see single older women living in public housing by themselves. One Ogaden older woman, in her mid 50s, told my divorced cousin who is in his late 30s & her neighbor, "when I get horny, I pour warm hot water in me" This she said when he gave her a ride somewhere. She took opportunity right away in that single ride to shukaansi my cousin. He called us shocked and traumatized.
My question is:: Why dont old somali men marry old single somali women and keep each other company??? Its not about having babies obviously, because I dont see the older men going to marry a young one. (some do) In the west its a mater of sense. Its very odd two grown old men cooking angeero/lo and laxox together by two adorable gay couple. Its very unbecoming.
Am I crazy to thing that????
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