another thing with you "blackpillers" is men should not be obsessing over their looks. women are valued for their looks, whether this is right or wrong. but men are not valued for their looks- not anywhere near to the extent that is the case when it comes to women. with men, the perceived value has to do with money and power. this idea that men should be obsessing over their looks is projecting a female thing onto men. women obsess over their looks because society is concerned with their looks- and this is wrong. but men are not the same as women and the lives and experiences of the two are not the same.
I never understood these feminine men focused on look. Men are judged on their intelligence-humor-money-shared life goal. These Somalis are backward and do everything that isn't respected and need to be 'actually told', must be 'single mom raised' generation, god dammit, im fed up with these absent fathers leaving these type of ppl for us to mentor which the father should've.
I used to be self conscious of my looks especially OVER PIMPLES but my father whipped that crap out of me quick smart and told me the reality.