A mere finger can’t obscure the sun.
Everything you have said is a good point. He was ripped from his environment and the mother he knows and he’s confused and acting out here.
May I also point out I have grown brothers that
reside here but have never helped out with babysitting or anything else.
Cause I’m the girl I have to do it.
I’ve told her if you need caregivers, get the Somali ones cause here in Alberta there’s a lot of Somali caregivers who help special need kids.
I was ignored.
Before he came here, i warned her for like two years , like hey get this ready for him in terms of medication and health professionals and other things that can make his adjustment here easier on all of us. Everything I advised was ignored and I was yelled at.
I’ve spoken with her multiple times, especially after the times he beat on her while I was away for school or errands.
I’ve spoken about how realistically he’ll get bigger and your already an older woman who can’t take the beatings any longer.
You can’t even contain him, even taking him to errands he would beat on her and others in public.
You simply can’t care for him in the future and like my abo and other relatives have said, he will eventually kill her perhaps due to her stubbornness.
I had to make her get a brain scan, due to him beating her head and I found her unconscious.
But when you state that you don’t care what we dealing with, and I’ve tried on multiple occasions to help her, I simply can’t do any more.
Do what’s best for you and your child without guilt. You did what you could to help. It seems like your mother is having a hard time accepting your brother is autistic. It’s a difficult situation to be in. Is there anyone else your mother would listen to? Your brother needs help and his behaviour will continue to escalate if he doesn’t get the right support. He could seriously harm someone or himself if his behaviour isn’t managed.