Advice on calling the mother

[OffTheDome]

This reminds me of that Reddit post where that Muslim guy married his wife before ever seeing her face. This guy literally asked for a divorce afterwards


How do you have the mothers number before the girls? Just take the L bro and move on

 

[Dibleyy]

Oh my god, do not call the mother! She knows what day it is, either she doesn’t want you as a son in law or she asked the daughter and she’s not interested. Sorry for your luck Its rough game out here getting married

 

[Yusuf Abdi Ali Rashid]

Next time you see her mother whip this bad boy out and demand her daughters phone number. It works like a charm.

 

[Hilmaam]

your profile pic , so random ain’t he guy killing all the journalists

Salute for putting yourself out there. Marriage and dating is numbers game you will find match. Unfortunately this one sounds like dead end, she likely would have given you daughter number while on the phone .saying she would send it seems like stalling tactic and trying to let you down easy which sometimes is worse than being honest and forward

 

[Ladylike]

You sent the messenger now all you have to do is wait. Behave yourself cause if you overreact you could ruin your chances. Oh maybe she said no cus she has a choice too who either way have fun and be respectful.

 

[3LetterzMM]

Ur tripping u always gotta ask her for the number before u leave that’s my rule. Gotta make sure you have some line of contact for a late night linkup.

 

[SomaliSteel]

That is extremely weird. Even in Somalia we never did things like this. You have to get to know the girl before you even approach the family. Once you both agree you both go to your respective parents.

Some random weirdo coming to her house asking for her hand would be seen as creepy

 

[Mantiq_Al-gharb]

This is the hardest L I've seen in quite a while

 

[Mount23]

Do u live in Afghanistan or something lol

 

[Kamaal]

Xaaji waad is maqiiqday. You should've talk to the girl first. Going to the mother would've worked only if you were well known millionaire like Dahabshiil's son. Maybe you're rich what do I know?

 

[empressjamila]

You should have asked her for her number yourself. Even the most religious girl wants a guy with some confidence and game. Not running everything through her mom cause he’s too scared to talk to her directly

 

[Basra]

Go dress like him

 

[Odious Delirium]

It's up to you.
You can call the mother and ask for the daughters number or you can move on.

 

[JigjigaKismaayo]

You are being too respectful! You gotta ruffle some feathers. Go back to the house uninvited, ask the chick to go make tea and chill with hooyo for a minute, then talk to the girl, get the number and dip.

 

[Mercury]

First of all why would you meet her brother and mother when you NEVER spoke to this girl?

Even introduced by a family friend there’s no reason go to her house meet her parents

The ONLY time you meet her parents siblings is when you both agree to get married thats when you bring your uncles etc and do the nikkah

 

[KaiMarvin]

playing by the book not gonna get you far nowdays. These new xalimos wanna be wined and

dined first just ask @Magan95

 

[Basra]

playing by the book not gonna get you far nowdays. These new xalimos wanna be wined and

dined first just ask @Magan95

 

[AbdiFreedom]

Lmfao.

You never spoke to the girl before? You went straight to her mother?