BebsiBolice
Suicidal men adore me.
Okay,
I hope I can shed some light on this. I'm Somali right.
I love being Somali, nothing wrong with being Somali. Marrying outside the Somali race is no big deal at all.
I don't understand why the OP is so frustrated. Actually, I can sympathise because most Somali men prefer their own. Fortunately, this is not reciprocated. I say fortunately for a reason by the way, why? Because Somali men realllllyyy and I mean really haven't built up a good reputation with us.
I agree the younger generation are better compared to the older, but not a vast difference.
A lot of OLDER generation are laze abouts who stay in coffee shops all day, that's the truth. They hardly provide for their women.
I'm not even exaggerating at ALL. Just step outside, and go to a Somali populated area. Now I know, it's not to generalise. I absolutely agree with that. That's not from intellect to say all people as such and such. But to be fair, the younger generation haven't provided anything to show their entirely different. You see what I'm saying?
I actually find white guys highly attractive to be honest, don't get jealous. Some Somali guys are attractive, but I've always been into white guys
It's just a preference. That's all.
It's not so much the white skin, but HIGHLY due to their mannerisms, and their approach to women.
The aqlaak of the Somali men, has not proven to be very different to their pre-decessors and trust! No women wants someone like that.
Count on this. It's the mans character, not his looks that probs 9/10 times wins a women's heart.
Not merely the colour of their skin, some even daaarkk skin guys are nice looking because of their features.
Another trait which infuritates me about Somali men is their promiscuity. SubhanAllah, some men be having like intimate conversations to non mahram women even though they have a wife and like 7+ kids. Wallah this is true!
Of course, you find the odd Somali decent guy, but the rare to comeby. Most sisters and trust me ive heard a lot of sisters mention that they never want to marry a Somali guy aren't bothered to such for that odd guy.
Reverts are lovely, decent and on deen ma Shaa Allah. May Allah preserve all of our Muslim brothers
. Ameen.
If you want to appeal to the Somali women(younger generation) then attempt to remove this stereotype because a fair proportion of us don't have a positive perception of Somali men
I hope this helped. Please don't take any offence.
And then another Somali girl gave her opinion
I think her points are very interesting and reasonable.this is all so true. Most Somali men are disgusting
LMAOO A LEBANESE GIRL GAVE HER OPINION ON SOMALI MEN
If all the women of your race leave for foreign men it will be hard. Plus, it's harder for a Somalian man to get a white or Arab woman because unfortunately: 1) Families are against their daughter marrying a Black man (2) Socio-Economically Somali men are poorer (3) Women don't marry men below their class (4) Most Muslima reverts want Arab men ...... Even I had a female cousin who tried to marry a Somalian man she was mixed herself, her mom was Ukrainian but he was rejected by my uncle. It's a shame. There still is taboo against marrying Blacks.
waryadaa yall need to become Alphas.
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