A brother has a wife who can't cook

[SOMALIKNIGHT]

I went one a day trip with a few brothers and the food was provided by one of them which was made by his xaas. It had no flavour or taste. It was honestly not fit for even a child who cannot speak about their displeasure.



I was quite angry because he should not have offered to provide the food. When you go on short trips, you eat at restaurants. I had to confirm with the others that I was not wrong and they asked me to not bring up this issue with him but they agreed.

He is our good friend and he should not be subjected to this at the home. He was desperate for a wife a few years ago that I think he has overlooked this obvious flaw and this food was offered because he has lost the taste in his tongue.

I am contemplating telling him about this concern. His kids may resort to eating chicken and chips everyday when they become older and he may be embarassed in the future when others find out (I hope he never had to provide food to marti).

 

[HalimaJ]

So now you want to intervene like a little shaytan in other people's marriages?

What if he likes her cooking? Mind your business warya.

 

[Jaydaan]

If it taste good for him....then all good. Its not like he came to you and brought it up. Be grateful for the food and keep it moving

 

[XawoTako]

I went one a day trip with a few brothers and the food was provided by one of them which was made by his xaas. It had no flavour or taste. It was honestly not fit for even a child who cannot speak about their displeasure.



I was quite angry because he should not have offered to provide the food. When you go on short trips, you eat at restaurants. I had to confirm with the others that I was not wrong and they asked me to not bring up this issue with him but they agreed.

He is our good friend and he should not be subjected to this at the home. He was desperate for a wife a few years ago that I think he has overlooked this obvious flaw and this food was offered because he has lost the taste in his tongue.

I am contemplating telling him about this concern. His kids may resort to eating chicken and chips everyday when they become older and he may be embarassed in the future when others find out (I hope he never had to provide food to marti).

They were nice enough to offer you free food. Please dont stick your nose where it doesn't belong!

 

[ABG]

Complain about mediocre cooking when people go without

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Atleast he has a wife who provides hot meal to him while you're one lonely, miserable, women hating prick. I bet the food tasted great but you're a hater so everything tastes bitter to you because of your bitter heart.

 

[bluebird]

I was quite angry

Why? Too much negative energy flowing through you if a bland meal sets you off.

 

[Abdisamad]

A woman who can't cook

That should be categorized as a crime under the law of the land to protect good men from misery

 

[SOMALIKNIGHT]

A woman who can't cook

That should be categorized as a crime under the law of the land to protect good men from misery

I do not know what is worse: a woman who doesn't cook or a woman who can't cook

 

[Mehmet]

I went one a day trip with a few brothers and the food was provided by one of them which was made by his xaas. It had no flavour or taste. It was honestly not fit for even a child who cannot speak about their displeasure.



I was quite angry because he should not have offered to provide the food. When you go on short trips, you eat at restaurants. I had to confirm with the others that I was not wrong and they asked me to not bring up this issue with him but they agreed.

He is our good friend and he should not be subjected to this at the home. He was desperate for a wife a few years ago that I think he has overlooked this obvious flaw and this food was offered because he has lost the taste in his tongue.

I am contemplating telling him about this concern. His kids may resort to eating chicken and chips everyday when they become older and he may be embarassed in the future when others find out (I hope he never had to provide food to marti).

You are a horrible friend and he has horrible taste in women as no man should suffer like that

 

[Mehmet]

A woman who can't cook

That should be categorized as a crime under the law of the land to protect good men from misery

Imagine those types want you to eat them to forget about it but i say cheat on them openly as a punishment to behave themselfs

 

[embarassing]

what an absolute troll

 

[Mehmet]

what an absolute troll

Typical african loool

 

[Mehmet]

what an absolute troll

Imagine your neighbor basically naked throwing away old furniture in the middle of the night as you see her and her friend's curves but realise it is a trap plus messing with a maybe married woman ain't right

 

[embarassing]

Imagine your neighbor basically naked throwing away old furniture in the middle of the night as you see her and her friend's curves but realise it is a trap plus messing with a maybe married woman ain't right

what inspired this post? is this what youre going through mehmet?

 

[Mehmet]

what inspired this post? is this what youre going through mehmet?

I told her that you would kill me so put on something

 

[Mehmet]

what inspired this post? is this what youre going through mehmet?

Don't worry i will help you take cooking courses if you need them

 

[Mehmet]

So now you want to intervene like a little shaytan in other people's marriages?

What if he likes her cooking? Mind your business warya.

Only if you knew how folks breakup marriages just to get a shot at same party

 

[Jiron]

@SOMALIKNIGHT,

Horta thank you for sharing such a private moment with us with the intention of solving the issue u brought forth. It showed that there’s hope since u never brought it up to the them and came to us for answers. You did good.

First u have to recognize the fact they 1) invited u as a guest. It means that the husband cherishes ur company and wanted to share a moment with his closest friends. 2) they intended to feed u. Nothing says friendship like a full stomach, a moment full of stories, laughter and feast. Despite the fact that u didn’t enjoy the food, u have to acknowledge their beautiful intentions full of positivities. Believe it or not, I can only wish to be there, it definitely has all the traits and hallmarks of my favorite moments.

Sxb Cooking like all other skills is not something u are born with, it’s something u learn and depending on amount of energy and practice u put in to it, a person can absolutely master it. I would suggest helping them out, no one knows what u like the most then u. So one of these days convince ur buddy to host a sports game or something, go there early with recipes and show them the way

 

[Mercury]

Obvious flaw? Just cause the food was bland

In case you didn’t know there’s more important things to look for in a wife and cooking isn’t one of them cause that’s a skill you can learn anytime but a good personality,character , manners is more important cause she’s gonna be the one to raise your kids