15k meher is reasonable in 2018.

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So do men act like when she's asking for alot that she's talking to guys with no money

Worth is by taqwa, not money. A woman who is seriously materialistic- she isn't needed. There's plenty of better quality at a lower cost. It is a matter of simple economics and the bad quality at a high cost is a scam for suckers.
 

Blade1

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Worth is by taqwa, not money. A woman who is seriously materialistic- she isn't needed. There's plenty of better quality at a lower cost. It is a matter of simple economics and the bad quality at a high cost is a scam for suckers.
But not every woman that asks for alot of mehr is materialistic that's a way for her ask for a certain amount since the man will need to provide for her like her father has and she has that right.
Not to say alot of women aren't materialistic it's in our genes to ensure more security
 
But not every woman that asks for alot of mehr is materialistic that's a way for her ask for a certain amount since the man will need to provide for her like her father has and she has that right.
Not to say alot of women aren't materialistic it's in our genes to ensure more security

A man should provide and a woman is entitled to that from her husband. That isn't materialism. It's wrong to insult people.

O you who have believed, let not a people ridicule [another] people; perhaps they may be better than them; nor let women ridicule [other] women; perhaps they may be better than them. And do not insult one another and do not call each other by [offensive] nicknames. Wretched is the name of disobedience after [one's] faith. And whoever does not repent - then it is those who are the wrongdoers.

-Quran 49:11

A person is not greater or lesser on the basis of things like wealth but taqwa.

Just as a woman's piety is more important than her looks.

The woman has a right to be provided for. However, excessive materialism is bad. Men and women should go for righteous spouses.
 

SOMALIKNIGHT

Golan Heights belong to Syria
Weddings should not be expensive. How come gaalo get married in their garden? They marry for love. They will kill themselves if you separate them from the love of their life. Wedding expenses are the last thing on their minds.
 

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Death Awaits You
Somalis in my city rarely get married. The very few fobs who decide to start a family relocate to MN or Seattle.
 
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