marriage dilemma

  1. Odious Delirium

    Pre marriage counselling/couples therapy?

    What do you guys think about this? Everyone keeps going on about mental health awareness and seeking normal therapy but no one touches on the generational trauma left by the actual marriages of the old gen and our view towards our own futures with regards to marriage based off there experiences...
  2. AhmedSmelly

    Why you should marry a western Halimo

    I was just contemplating, what's the best trait a women can have? Obedience If she has a small body count, you can use that against her. Blackmail can do wonders for a relationship. Dont forget, she also has great experience in bed. Manshallah Western Somalis would make the best wives. Yes...
  3. Odkac WRLD

    My Cousins Marriage Prospects ( not what you think)

    So my cuzzo, my old role model, the big bro is preparing to ask for this girls hand by meeting her dad. Real traditional. He works for a pretty well know tech company and makes serious $$$. We in Cali and the girl is UK so he gonna grab some of us his abtis in the area and talk to the dad...
  4. Peaches

    Arranged marriage is good, so are casual relationships.

    My immediate thought after watching this is, why not both? see If you have a best friend that you get along with, who shares the same values and world views and economical dreams, why don't you come together under marriage? you don't necessarily have sex or intimate feelings. Just be partners...
  5. L

    20 year old female and not allowed to travel!!

    I'm in a tough predicament. My parents have always been fairly lenient on me and I've never given them a reason to doubt me. I am a full-time uni student and work full-time as well. But my mom refuses for me to go overseas, even countries where I have IMMEDIATE family. They tried to use the...