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    stability/ security vs. love

    Yo I’m talking about what u value more in ur relationship w a potential spouse and NOT being in a loveless marriage I feel like if stability, and all of it components - respect, loyalty, companionship, is the foundation on which your relationship is founded on - love would be a bonus and well...
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    stability/ security vs. love

    Oh yeah nah you have a point there are risks associated w everything.. u marry a qumayo that’s an L. But if I marry a Farah I’m madly in love w, I just feel like I’ll be taken advantage of... don’t get me wrong I want to be an excellent wife but I also want the upper hand - emotionally -...
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    stability/ security vs. love

    Yeah sad but not a big deal Btw what does maryooley mean?
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    stability/ security vs. love

    Um its 2019 I’d rather a Farah who loves me far more than I love him than “an asshole”. The guy I’m speaking of isn’t even a Farah but that’s entirely another point.
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    stability/ security vs. love

    I have siblings that are married and they didn’t love those farahs when they got married so... who cares? Me settling w someone who can provide stability - financial and emotional is the same as him picking me bc I’ll be a great mum and excellent wife
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    stability/ security vs. love

    I think it’s rather typical for women to value love tuh I feel like either there’s love in the beginning and it wanes or u can choose stability and we’ll hopefully love will come. Personally I feel like I’m winning if I can appreciate someone who can provide stability but is also in love with...
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    stability/ security vs. love

    When looking for a potential what do you guys value more - stability or love/ sexual chemistry (whatever you want to call it)? Ive always associated someone picking love over stability as essentially picking a harder life for something that isn’t vital lol who needs love? I need support...
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    I'm NOT anorexic

    Thanks I should probably see someone bc I do have anxiety
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    I'm NOT anorexic

    Nah it's a non issue with my family lol they think I'm kinda neurotic but I just have a complex when it comes to eating in public I feel like people are watching me even though I know they're not I just feel gross I'm 177cm so I know I'm not underweight at all plus bmi is generally bullshit...
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    I'm NOT anorexic

    Thanks I'm actually in Australia so we're actually putting on jackets, I'm looking forward to hiding my body further lol
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    I'm NOT anorexic

    yeah I can't eat around people I feel self conscious so I eat most meals at home...I'm 56kg
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    I'm NOT anorexic

    No I don't I think it's more of a people phobia tbh I eat plenty I just don't like people looking at me eat haaaa that sounds weird. I'm not stick thin I'm toned but skinny
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    I'm NOT anorexic

    Yes I'm very particular about what I eat and I exercise a lot but that's only because I like control. I like the fact that I can exert a certain amount of energy on something where the results are so obvious. Whatever. What's the best way to shut down people who always have shit to say about my...
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    Tell me something random about yourself

    I'm 22 and I've never felt strongly about anything. I lack ambition and passion but somehow my ass is heading to med school next year.
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