its appropriate because you going to be with this person your whole life.
Also people who commited zina should only go for other people who are not virgins.
Virgins for virgins.
If you're a virgin yourself then find yourself someone that is virgin.
by all means im not broke. I actually make decent money and do well for myself. I'm more concerned about my self at this point in my life; like focusing on my retirement, 401k, expanding my stocks, and traveling around the world.
Remember, women get bored easily. If you're not keeping her...
Excellent point. Hence why i encourage her to work. Being a lazy bum (@Aria ) will not help you with your career. If you get divorced, then the husband has the upper hand in the relationship. Thats why most stay at home wifes obey their husbands orders.
What i meant is that im not busting my...
While I work hard and die to pay bills. She wants to stay at home all cozy'd up, watching TV (soap operas), waking up late, and chill.
Lol. Thats not going work.
This is why the divorce rate within our community is high amongst young couples under 35. Somali women raised in the West are the biggest gold diggers and most of their demands are unrealistic.
As you said - they want to stay home but they want you to help out with the chores after you worked...
OUR Bills.
Half and Half on the bills. Cadaan couples do this, but Xalimos act like they are entitled to the guys money. This is why I see young somali couple getting divorced.
Cost of living is going up, abayo. Most of us are not pushing six figures. We're at the middle-class level and we need support.
Might have to postpone having kids for few years then when we're ready, we can have kids. Marriage is not just for reproducing --- its all about team work
You can know the daughters sexual actvitiy. Does she talk on the phone late at night? Does she "sleep over at friends house" ? does she hang with questionable friends?
The truth will eventually come out.
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