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I realize now that my behavior in this relationship is just insecure and needy. If a relationship is just causing you sleepless nights and stress it’s better to be single and work on your self until you meet the next girl. Laakin is blocking her and just going silent on her the best course of...

Always as sharp and eloquent in your thoughts my MJ mentor :salute: You reckon that this relationship has come to its end now or is there any chance of building on this foundation? Her explanation when we went one month without any communication is that she thought I was not serious with her...

So Sorry if I ask too many question ugaasyahow laakin how do you mean with putting her on the stand but not talking about t my own feelings? Could you give any example of how to do that

Yes that sounds reasonable sxb, the red flag as I’ve mentioned before is that she doesn’t initiate any contact with me and takes hours for her to answer when I write or send a snap to her but she is still active and online on the social media apps. I’m gonna have a serious discussion with her...

Thanks sxb for your reply! How do you suggest me to proceed now? Do I just accept my L and stop writing to her? Or do I talk with her and tell her how I feel and what I want and move on if we don’t share a common goal? The thing is that I have already talked with her about how I wanna move to...

Thank you for your reply abaayo! May I ask if you were the one who was paying all attention to the other or if a guy was interested in you but not vice versa. And do you think that this is something that is best handled IRL in 12 days when i return back home or can I handle this by phone before?

Damn, this is all making me even more confused runti. Because if I tell her how I feel that i have to do all the initiating and courting all the time and she starts to be more proactive it’s just gonna feel she is doing it just cause she feels forced to do it. Are you saying that it’s to late...

I’m not looking for a hookup nor a gf-bf relationship sxb, and we literally live in front of each other so better to play it safe

No problem, honesty is better than sugarcoating the truth. The biggest red flag right now is that she really takes her time replying to messages. It takes almost 2-3 hours for her to respond and the thing is that I can see that she is online and active on Instagram, Snapchat and Facebook. And...

I aint gonna lie, it hurt inside me reading this reply. Laakin it just convinced me even more to do as some posters advised me to do. Meet up with her before she goes on her trip in August and if not possible call her. And then explain How I feel and what I want. And then step back and see if...

Thanks for your very thoughtful reply @embarassing This is probably the way that I will handle this dilemma. Laakin I was wondering if this is something that’s best taken care of face to face or if it’s better to give her some space and call her/write on message? The thing is that Im abroad...

I dont want to qarxiis myself and give all the specific details, laakin it was a coffeehouse chain that only exists in my country so I mentioned a a generic coffeehouse instead

War waxaan baas, qabiil kulaha. How would qabiil be an issue if we haven't talked about clans at all or do you suggest that my qabiil is stamped on my forehead...

Thanks walaalkiis for your long and well needed reply :salute:It feels good to be back again. Insha Allah it works out with you and the halimo you meet sxb I agree with you that the best course of action is to be direct and bring up the topic of marriage laakin should I mention something about...

If that's the case wallahi I'm the dameer of the year. Here I have put all my eggs in one basket and there might be a slight chance that some other Abdi is the one who is getting all her attention. In March there was another cute girl from uni who seemed interested in me but who I didn't put any...

What did i miss sxb, where did you read that she uses social media and phone heavily?

Your probably right there, laakin it just seemed to be such an inbalance in who initiated contact all the time that I wanted to see if I was right in that or not

It could be that she is just shy natured. We live literally in the same neighborhood but I didn't even know that she existed before this year. None of my close friends that live in our neighborhood knows her either. And she doesn't have any profile photos on Facebook and other social medias...

Laakin it seems that you aint reading what i'm writing. I just told you that I don't have my own ride and that we take the bus and metro to the places we go to eat like some miskiimiins :francis: And if she hadn't offered to pay for the food every time and splitted the bill 2-3 times I would...