Woow, it's pretty obvious the power dynamics between Somalis and mathows are different in Europe compared to here in the states. We put the fear of God in these dregs of society and don't take any shit from them.
I feel sorry for you guys lakin you always have the option to leave and go back to...
Great post. It's pretty evident that raising kids in the west is a bad idea. I'll have to make Hijrah to a Muslim country when I'm ready to start a family Insha'Allah. It's a sacrifice worth undergoing.
Your brain is fully developed by the age of 25 so I'd advise you to lay off the weed until your body has matured mentally.
Although their are medical benefits to cannabis, there's just not enough studies done on human subjects to give any conclusive facts. So you really are rolling the dice...
If you did your dirt in private then YES, only Allah can judge you.
Lakin if the whole neighborhood knows about your debauchery and you have a bad reputation then it's on you. You fucked up and people judging you and talking shit becomes one of the consequences.
Actions have consequences...
I actually don't like the attention. It's a blessing and a curse walahi.
I literally have to give myself a buzzcut every few months because of the excessive stares I'll get everywhere I go.
Don't get me wrong, it's nice when a pretty gal gives you attention but when these wildebeests also...
Right now the Somali community has a plethora of unmarried Xalimos, druggie Faraxs and single moms. I predict in the next 10yrs that it'll only get much worse!
Get your shit together and get out of Babylon while you still have a chance.
There's something peaceful about walking outside and seeing other people that look exactly like you.
Living around cadaans 24/7 has me in a constant state of high alert.
Once you make it in the west, you owe it to your soul to live peacefully.
Go back home. Mama Afrika needs you.