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http://www.islamweb.net/en/article/149397/obeying-the-husband-is-the-key-to-paradise
The Islamic Sharee'ah stresses that the wife is under the obligation of obeying her husband. This remains unless he commands her to disobey Allah The Exalted. She is required to obey him and exert her utmost effort to fulfill his needs in a way that makes him satisfied and thankful. This is supported by the Hadeeth where the Prophet,, said:“If the woman performs the five daily prayers, fasts the month of Ramadan, maintains her chastity and obeys her husband, she will enter the Paradise of her Lord.” Likewise, Allah The Exalted Says (what means): {But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them.} [Quran 4:34] Moreover, the Prophet,, said: “Were I to order anyone to prostrate himself before anyone else, I would have ordered the woman to prostrate herself before her husband.”)))
so....
What you're saying is that you don't want to go to Paradise?
....Fascinating
I want to go to paradise, but i wont marry a man who wants me to obey him,
he knows what he is getting and he should be happy with a strong wife!
I wouldn't marry a man who told me not to go to a wedding @Vision
furthermore I wouldnt marry a man who told me when and where I could go,
like some parent