Somali girl and her gypsy husband

jugjugwacwac said:

So it's for this reason that they parade their ajanabi saviours on Youtube, as a way of communicating to the world 'Hey, look at me, I've been saved, I've made it, I'm a worthy human now'. It's utterly pathetic, but nothing perplexing about it.

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VixR said:

The world is not your playground, unfortunately for you. As much as you seek to make it so.

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Inquisitive_ said:

This post is brilliant, worth its weight in gold, you never see Somali on Somali relationship promoted on Youtube, no Xaalimo would upload a Youtube clip of her Farah Husband.

Very few of these interracial marriages are authentic or pure, there is always a caveat, the Arab male would flee from his women because he cannot keep up with the extortionate Meher, or he is unable to court one, hence they go for East African Black or Maghrebi women by default because to them they are cheap in every sense.

The East African women afflicted with self-hate will go for it for the reasons you have described, This artificial created hierarchy system is an outlet for self-hate, for scorned women, for the bottom feeders and scrapers of society

I remember growing up, I was perplexed why I felt deeply ashamed being seen with a White-women or an Asian-women and they were 'just' friends on college/university campuses whom used to latch on to me, despite showing no reciprocating interest.

I never understood this conundrum back then, but this sense of shame was merely a reflection of deep self-worth, an insatiable pride in ones heritage and culture, the only women outside of my preferred Somali that even looked attractive to me were of course our cushitic neighbours that share the same features.

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Inquisitive_ said:

This post is brilliant, worth its weight in gold, you never see Somali on Somali relationship promoted on Youtube, no Xaalimo would upload a Youtube clip of her Farah Husband.

Very few of these interracial marriages are authentic or pure, there is always a caveat, the Arab male would flee from his women because he cannot keep up with the extortionate Meher, or he is unable to court one, hence they go for East African Black or Maghrebi women by default because to them they are cheap in every sense.

The East African women afflicted with self-hate will go for it for the reasons you have described, This artificial created hierarchy system is an outlet for self-hate, for scorned women, for the bottom feeders and scrapers of society

I remember growing up, I was perplexed why I felt deeply ashamed being seen with a White-women or an Asian-women and they were 'just' friends on college/university campuses whom used to latch on to me, despite showing no reciprocating interest.

I never understood this conundrum back then, but this sense of shame was merely a reflection of deep self-worth, an insatiable pride in ones heritage and culture, the only women outside of my preferred Somali that even looked attractive to me were of course our cushitic neighbours that share the same features.

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jugjugwacwac said:

No, not a playground but a battleground where competing ideas and worldviews fight for ascendancy. I'm just sharing some of my own views in this battle for Somali hearts and minds, is that a crime?

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jugjugwacwac said:

Ur pretentiousness hasn't gotten old rather quickly. Dhiidhiibso (ask ur parents).

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Tramo said:

kkkkkkkkkk my nigga said dhiidhiibso

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VixR said:

This is precisely the awkward sort of shit that comes spewing out of these self-appointed social theorist weirdos.

Forget all else, but being deeply ashamed of being seen with White/Asian women due to self worth in your own backgrounddo the two have to do with each other? Weaving intersectionalities that don't exist.

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Inquisitive_ said:

This post is brilliant, worth its weight in gold, you never see Somali on Somali relationship promoted on Youtube, no Xaalimo would upload a Youtube clip of her Farah Husband.

Very few of these interracial marriages are authentic or pure, there is always a caveat, the Arab male would flee from his women because he cannot keep up with the extortionate Meher, or he is unable to court one, hence they go for East African Black or Maghrebi women by default because to them they are cheap in every sense.

The East African women afflicted with self-hate will go for it for the reasons you have described, This artificial created hierarchy system is an outlet for self-hate, for scorned women, for the bottom feeders and scrapers of society

I remember growing up, I was perplexed why I felt deeply ashamed being seen with a White-women or an Asian-women and they were 'just' friends on college/university campuses whom used to latch on to me, despite showing no reciprocating interest.

I never understood this conundrum back then, but this sense of shame was merely a reflection of deep self-worth, an insatiable pride in ones heritage and culture, the only women outside of my preferred Somali that even looked attractive to me were of course our cushitic neighbours that share the same features.

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This post is brilliant, worth its weight in gold, you never see Somali on Somali relationship promoted on Youtube, no Xaalimo would upload a Youtube clip of her Farah Husband.

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VixR said:

When self-hate is the your running answer to everything.

The simplest explanations are no longer flavorable, but that we entertain expansive bullshit like Somali girls hating to display Somali husbands due to self-hate ?

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VixR said:

I'm honestly starting to think [too many] Somali men have an extremely low self-esteem.

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AceofSom said:

I don't see Somali guys promoting their so called ' ajnabi" spouses on Youtube, thinking they have strike gold

I don't think anyone surpasses some of these Somali girls in low self esteem.

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Inquisitive_ said:

This post is brilliant, worth its weight in gold, you never see Somali on Somali relationship promoted on Youtube, no Xaalimo would upload a Youtube clip of her Farah Husband.

Very few of these interracial marriages are authentic or pure, there is always a caveat, the Arab male would flee from his women because he cannot keep up with the extortionate Meher, or he is unable to court one, hence they go for East African Black or Maghrebi women by default because to them they are cheap in every sense.

The East African women afflicted with self-hate will go for it for the reasons you have described, This artificial created hierarchy system is an outlet for self-hate, for scorned women, for the bottom feeders and scrapers of society

I remember growing up, I was perplexed why I felt deeply ashamed being seen with a White-women or an Asian-women and they were 'just' friends on college/university campuses whom used to latch on to me, despite showing no reciprocating interest.

I never understood this conundrum back then, but this sense of shame was merely a reflection of deep self-worth, an insatiable pride in ones heritage and culture, the only women outside of my preferred Somali that even looked attractive to me were of course our cushitic neighbours that share the same features.

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Amun said:

Didn't watch the clip or read any of this thread:

But want to inform y'all on a common mistake: NOT ALL ROMANIANS AND BULGARIANS ARE GYPSY.

Only a small minority of those countries is gypsy. Most are ethnic Europeans who look like Polish/Slav people. This is like saying all Somalis are BANTU because of the small minority of Bantus.

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Inquisitive_ said:

You just proved my point, totally misrepresented what I said, self-hate was purely towards the interracial aspect not Somali upon Somali.

With that I mean the fast majority of interracial marriage, not all, because there are always needles in a haystack, statistics backs me on this

Something so basic and elementary you failed to grasp, but you expect me to go deeper into the finer details with this, while your struggling to grapple the very basics. Let's talk about exotic foods or home designs? anything not requiring logic madame.

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Bielsa said:

I think people know this but deliberately call all Romanians gypsies as an insult.

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VixR said:

I'm honestly starting to think [too many] Somali men have an extremely low self-esteem.

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