This is how it should be DONE!

Odkac WRLD

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Like many Somali young folks, I’ve been to a shit ton of weddings.

majority of them are in huge Venues, costing groom tens of thousands. Singers, food, and hosting so many is a strain financially to start the marriage.

I was at a wedding last week. Very small and personal, with groom and bride family and friends less than 150 total.

most chill wedding I’ve been to. Never laughed or had such fun wlhi. I had to take notes lmao food was A1 too

the mehr was low, but both bride and groom have pro jobs and are already looking for a home to buy with their saved down payment. They are going to africa I believe. Mashallah :rejoice:

this is how I’ll have mine inshallah. Lower cost event, not many guests, and funds saved for travel and homeownership. This couple really did it right. If the man payed 10-20k mehr this would not have been possible.

we gotta realize it’s not feasible asking a man making 60-70k for 20k mehr, just build something together!
But us men can’t be cheap either
What was the best wedding you’ve been to?
 

Odkac WRLD

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Theres other ethnicities to choose from, we dont have to go specifically for xalimos kkkk
Xalimos are only single/marrrying out only because the number of eligible bachelor faraax (educated religion dhaqan) looking to get married is extremely low, and the ones available either go home 80% of time or marry some other xalimo leaving them single

I can’t see myself marrying ajnabi tbh toooo many differences :francis:

we gotta contain the myth that girls back home are better than the ones here...from what I’ve seen they may even be worse wlhi :damn: :damn:
 
Xalimos are only single/marrrying out only because the number of eligible bachelor faraax (educated religion dhaqan) looking to get married is extremely low, and the ones available either go home 80% of time or marry some other xalimo leaving them single

I can’t see myself marrying ajnabi tbh toooo many differences :francis:

we gotta contain the myth that girls back home are better than the ones here...from what I’ve seen they may even be worse wlhi :damn: :damn:
If not more westernized kkkk, and that's why I'll most probably marry out, the thing is, xalimos think too highly of themselves, bout demanding 40k mehr:childplease:, i can get a thick Latina, indhoyar, hindi for way less lol, heck why not xabeshas too kkkk (for free).

I ain't wasting my savings on no ghoddamn 40k mehr:childplease::camby::nahgirl:
 

Odkac WRLD

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If not more westernized kkkk, and that's why I'll most probably marry out, the thing is, xalimos think too highly of themselves, bout demanding 40k mehr:childplease:, i can get a thick Latina, indhoyar, hindi for way less lol, heck why not xabeshas too kkkk (for free).

I ain't wasting my savings on no ghoddamn 40k mehr:childplease::camby::nahgirl:
I thought the same way 24 hrs ago but there really are down to earth xalimos out there.

this 50k Mehr shit is a meme lmao, never seen a dude actually pay 50k unless she’s Salma Hayek :damn:
They’ll get over that shit once the real world outside mama house hit them :camby:

their maths aren’t right
Average Somali boy at uni after graduating in the US will start with 40 to maybe 60(majority aren’t stem tbh)

how are you gonna ask for his entire salary? :drakelaugh:
Smoking rocks whallahi
 

Nostalgia

DEACTIVATED!
Not yet but soon, she's from back home.

I encourage all my brothers to marry from back home, these western-born somali women are usually left-leaning liberal feminists.

Good for you.

Why hate on Somali girls born/raised in the west?
I've seen more proper ones than the guys anyway.
 

Shmurda

King Of NSFW
The madax xanuun of marriage is the reason I won't get married :francis:

I like being lowkey and at a wedding your the center of attention I'll get put in a pack :francis:
 
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